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LV给我印象最深的是Venetian，所以这次决定带爸爸妈妈去住这家。为了增强震撼的效果，我事先一点也没有描绘这家饭店的特色。等我check in以后，回头看爸爸妈妈，他们正仰着头看绘满油画的穹顶，疲倦之情一扫而光。我说，从现在开始，我们要深刻地发现一下纸醉金迷的腐朽资本主义。爸爸妈妈都是老党员，哈哈笑起来。
早晨醒来的时候，爸爸正坐在窗边玩着遥控器开开关关窗帘，妈妈在浴室里研究着新鲜欲滴的蝴蝶兰。拉斯韦加斯清澈的阳光直射进来，前夜还在风雪中的小镇值夜班，眼前的一切似乎都不真实了。
四天匆匆而过，爸爸的摄像机里载满了他们的兴奋。以前在国内也经常全家出去旅游，但是都是爸爸妈妈负责行程，我只要打扮得票漂亮拍照就好了。在美国一个人东奔西跑虽然辛苦但是却也没有什么心理负担。这次带着爸爸妈妈出来旅游，觉得肩上责任很不一样，希望他们看到所有好看的东西，希望他们吃得开心，希望他们不受委屈，尤其是爸爸，好奇好动，一转头就不见了，我基本上是每时每刻都要绷着弦。
但是看着他们在威尼斯旅馆蓝天白云下，像孩子一样的笑容，所有的疲倦，压力，都烟消云散了。想来他们从小带我出去玩，原来都是这么操心的，只是我从来不知道罢了。
其实我觉得你爸爸妈妈并不在乎能到哪里去玩，只要和你在一起就会很开心了。到了家能陪他们多说说话，也是体贴呢。
纵然平行，谢谢你的留言，你的这么美丽的文字，让我都觉得自己不管怎么回复都太过潦草了，呵呵。写得越来越少了，好像觉得自己需要倾诉的冲动越来越少了，一时的情绪波动，或者瞬间的想法，慢慢地能够自己平稳下来，更注重于自己的反思和独立分析，而不急于立即写下来。但是还是会继续写下去的，只是就像你说的，sentimental, ideal, opinionate and insecure 的东西会少点。
至于你对父母的态度，我觉得自己其实做得也很不足，出去旅游固然开心，但是像下班回家这样的时候，觉得累，就不想说话，爸爸妈妈闷了一天，我知道他们很想跟我说话，唉。我们互相督促吧。
一直不知道你的家乡在哪儿，无论在哪儿，初春的时候回去，有父母的温暖，一定是一次很值得回忆的旅行，千万不要check 华尔街的行情哦，给我知道肯定骂你freak!
damao，我一直很仰慕你的，以后我一定写得比这个还长的留言给你，就是用中文算了，好不好？
看到了这篇，挖哈哈。
http://blog.wenxuecity.com/blogview.php?date=200607&postID=6814
Judging your smaller quantity of blogging pieces written this year, it seems to me that you have been undergoing some makeovers lately. For one thing, you have shunned away quite a bit from your trademark of “Daydreaming in the Sun Shine”, the signature style often shows your sentimental, ideal, opinionate and insecure facades without apology -. Nowadays, you are tilting towards mature, realistic, humorous and confident sides instead. I guess the transformation might result from the accumulative professional experiences and the elapse time of being grownup.
Put this aside, overall it has be a good year for you, I think. You may not be out of wood yet, but definitely it is closer. Hoping as you are continuing your journey of “metamorphosis” you’d still be able to maintain your uplifting spirits all the tine; no matter if they are your personal struggles in working place, or the highlights/reflections after or during your normal working days or your joys of being around with your parents.
Speaking of parents, your recent postings made me feel like a total jerk. You have spent lots of efforts and time to accommodate your parents since they arrived. On the contrary when my folks visited me in 2004, what I did most was to give them cash and ask them to buy anything they’d like. I did book some tours for them, putting them in most luxury hotels and showering them with lavish gifts. But, what I failed to do is that I did not devote much my time as they were here with me. As the matters of fact, I spent very little personal time with them because I was chasing a promotion which I’d want then badly; I was afraid that any absent time might reduce my chances to get it. Even though I told my parents about my dilemma, and they apparently understood my position I didn’t have the wit to set the priority straight at that time. I remembered that one evening as my parents and I were striding in Central Park after dinner I was busy talking with someone about work on my cell, I overheard my parents’ conversation about me. “I wish we had a girl” my mother said my father. “He is a boy and he is going to do whatever the nature designs him for. Don’t worry he’ll learn.” My father comforted my worried mother.
Looking back I feel sort of guilty. Funny things is that female and male children do approach parents differently as the caretaker, and we , men, might harness adequately to provide financial security; yet comparing to women , we may be poorly equipped sociologically to deal with complex emotional needs of our parents even we’d want to do a good job.
I think that it may be still not too late for me to learn, though. In Fact, I am about to go back home to spend some quality time with my folks in China in couple days. I’ve name my trip “Operation Redemption”.
Enjoy your parents stay and drink enough of Champagne this New Year eve.
回来了呀？累是肯定的，好好休息调整一下。但玩的开心最重要，对吧，尤其是爸爸，将来肯定会拿录像出来细细反复品味的呢 ：）
祝全家新年快乐！！！
明亮新年好！你也准备接你爸爸妈妈来？
谢谢黑兰花，也祝你全家幸福！
大皇，DC好冷啊，风大，不过阳光很好。冰钓听上去很刺激阿，掉什么鱼呢？
大毛新年好！真可惜啊，错过了你这样的风云人物！我每天和爸爸妈妈回旅馆的时候就看见Tao门口时尚男女排队进去，不过我年纪大了，经不起这种很吵得音乐了。我也看见了张学友的广告，是不是在凯撒？什么时候去坛子里发点照片给我们看看阿。
我圣诞节的时候去了VEGAS，也住在这里，也有遥控器开关的窗帘，娃哈哈！我们看了23号晚上的张学友演唱会和MIRAGE的SHOW -- LOVE，是BEATLES的歌曲大串烧，光与影的盛宴，强烈推荐！ 好激动，我们居然前后在同一个空间错过，对了，我们还去了二楼的TAO，那个CLUB，"Always a happy ending!" 本店客人可以不用排长队。娃哈哈，太HIGH了。
祝 新年快乐！身体健康！工作顺利！
难以想象距离我们畅谈的那个情人节已经将近两年过去了。时间灰逝！
等着你回来上照片 ：）
去过DC一次，印象很好。Enjoy your trip, but keep warm!
要来DC了呀。先到NATIONAL PARKS的网上把有些景点的票登记好，比如WASHINGTON MONUMENT，到时候只要去拿票就好了，可以少排队。如果要参观国会山，早上很早就要开始排队了。DC可看的地方太多了：）自然博物馆是我最喜欢的一家。如果有机会的话，等明年樱花节的时候来。JEFFESON MEMORIAL 那里绕湖一周都是花，风吹过落英缤纷的样子可美了。
我们BALTIMORE的水族馆是美东有名的哦，别错过了：）
大皇兄弟好！西伯利亚的冬天如何阿。赫赫。我基本上没有什么计划，只是一个个旅馆走下去而已，圣诞前后要去DC了，那个应该好好计划一下了。
流沙随风，他们小赌了一下，赢钱是自然没有的。：）批判完腐朽的资本主义，接下来要去挖资本主义的根源，去首都了，呵呵。
谢谢Punny,Ruby和swanlake!:)祝节日愉快。
stillthere，谢谢你还记得我爸爸的自行车，祝你和家人节日愉快。
俺还记得爸爸的自行车呢？祝愿老爸永远年青！
有没有赢到钱？他们不爱赌？俺曾这么劝过老爸老妈，不能为社会主义添砖加瓦了，要学会如何去挖资本主义的墙角。不上场，就挖不到墙角，就没有发挥余热，呵呵，从此他们玩的一发不可收拾。