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(2016-02-26 08:23:17)

Thepurposeofalllaws,morals,institutions(体制）,andgovernments,istoestablishuniformityandsuppressdifference.Themotivationofthepeoplewhotrytoenforcethisuniformitymaybewhollyadmirable.Whentheyfindsomethingthatisgoodforthem,theymaybeanxioustoseethatothershaveitalso.Thisgoodintentionoftheirs,however,onlymakesthesituationmoretragic.IntheChuang-tzuthereisastorywhichsays:"Ofold,whenaseabirdalightedou...[阅读全文]

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得到相对快乐的途径 2（Way of Achieving Relative Happiness 2)

(2016-02-25 08:47:40)

Inconnectionwiththisideaoffreedevelopment,ChuangTzumakesacontrastbetweenwhatisofnatureandwhatisofman."Whatisofnature,"hesays,"isinternal.Whatisofmanisexternal（天在内，人在外）...Thatoxenandhorsesshouldhavefourfeetiswhatisofnature（牛马四足，是谓天）.Thatahaltershouldbeputonahorse'shead,orastringthroughanox'snose,iswhatisofman.（络马首，穿牛鼻，是谓人）"(Ch.17)Following...[阅读全文]

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得到相对快乐的途径 1（Way of Achieving Relative Happiness 1)

(2016-02-25 08:18:09)

ThefirstchapteroftheChuang-tzu,titled"TheHappyExcursion,"(庄子第一章，逍遥游）isasimpletext,fullofamusingstories.Theirunderlying(蕴含）ideaisthattherearevaryingdegreesintheachievementofhappiness.Afreedevelopmentofournaturesmayleadustoarelativekindofhappiness;absolutehappiness（至乐）isachievedthroughhigherunderstandingofthenatureofthings.Tocarryoutthefirstoftheserequirements,thefreedevel...[阅读全文]

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庄子轶事（Stories about Chuang Tzu)

(2016-02-25 07:48:50)

KingWeiofChu（楚威王）,havingheardChuangTzu'sname,oncesentmessengerswithgiftstoinvitehimtohisstate,promisingtomakehimchiefminister（宰相）.ChuangTzu,however,merelylaughedandsaidtothem:"...Goaway,donotdefileme...Iprefertheenjoymentofmyownfreewill."(HistoricalRecords,ch.63)(”子亟去，无污我。...我宁游戏污渎之中自快，无为有国者所羁，终身不仕，以快吾志焉。“）[阅读全文]

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水之动（Transforming Water)

(2016-02-19 17:42:05)

水有三态，固态的冰，液态的水还有会蒸发的水蒸汽，但在分子层，它们都是H2O. 这就如同我们经历的人生事件，它们本身是没有什么意义的:它们就是这样发生了，如此而已，比如生老病死。但我们人为地给这些事件赋予了意义,恐怕还远不止三种。（Themeaningofanexperienceistheonethatwegivetoitandperceptionhaseverythingtodowiththat.) 水之动（TransformingWater)是一种让你换个角度看待问题的练[阅读全文]

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育儿影视

(2016-02-16 18:28:34)

RacetoNowhere"www.racetonowhere.comchallengescurrentthinkingabouthowweprepareourchildrenforsuccess.Thisremarkablenewfilmshinesalightonthepriceourkidspayforthis“racetonowhere.”Cheatingiscommonplace,stress-relatedillness,depressionandburnoutarerampant,andironically,youngpeoplearriveatcollegeandtheworkplaceunpreparedanduninspired.Featuringtheheartbreakingstoriesofyoungpeoplewhohavebe...[阅读全文]

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育儿书籍

(2016-02-16 18:25:57)

1.“Mindset”–recommendedbyJackelynKu,JoyZhouandAlexandraBlood. 2."HintsonChildTraining"-recommendedbyJackelynKu 3."YourChild''sGrowingMind:BrainDevelopmentandLearningFromBirthtoAdolescence"–recommendedbyAngelaChiu 4."EndangeredMinds"–recommendedbyAngelaChiu 5."BoundarieswithTeenswhentosayYES,howtosayNO"–...[阅读全文]

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如何改善记忆

(2016-02-16 09:01:14)

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/memory/how-to-improve-your-memory.htm[阅读全文]

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豹之静+鹰之瞰

(2016-02-15 09:57:30)

鹰之鸟瞰的目的： 1.把自己从“想法”和“生活中的状态或形势”中隔开，以另一种视野看问题。 2.可以更客观，更分离地看待一些情感上投入过多的东西。当一个人深陷泥沼，或者处在负面状态时，他或她是不太可能做出高质量的决策的。鹰之鸟瞰让你站在一个更自然的状态看问题，做出一些更明智更清新的抉择。 3.摆脱“当局者迷”的状态，做一[阅读全文]

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豹之静

(2016-02-12 04:29:47)

目的： 1）可以在学习或做任何新的东西前练习，用来清心清脑（clearmind) 2）可以把自己放在一个觉察力比较高的状态（bemoreaware) 3)可以更好地观察到自己的潜意识，比如哪些习惯和行为是潜意识的过滤器或者是下意识的行为和习惯（helpyouobservethosesubconsciousoperations) 为什么要这么做呢？很简单，因为如果你不知道要改什么，那么如何能改正呢？ 4）帮助更好地进入alp[阅读全文]

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