one of the saddest things about divorce (zt)

read this from "I Feel Bad About My Neck" by Nora Ephron

"My sister Delia says this, and it's true. When we were growing up, we used to love to hear the story of how our parents met and fell in love and eloped one summer when they were both camp counselors. It was so much a part of our lives, a song sung again, and no matter what happened, no matter how awful things became between the two of them, we always knew that our parents had once been madly in love.
But in a divorce, you never tell your children that you were once madly in love with their father because it would be too confusing.
And then, after a while, you can't even remember whether you were."

truely, how sad it is.

两个曾经深爱的人，最后分开，渐行渐远，渐渐把过去忘记，包括曾经的欢笑和喜悦。

不，我不要这样的结局。我不要抹杀爱的记忆。曾经深爱过。我不要忘记。