My Valentine

 

值班，病人很重。转病人去了重症监护室，插管，家属谈话，忙到下午，才疲倦地走出来，准备去食堂里吃点东西。

低着头等着电梯，电梯打开的时候，有动人的歌声传出来，我讶异地抬头，四个老伯伯，穿着西装打着红色领带，白发矍铄，唱着合唱。电梯里还有护士和家属，大家都微笑着。原来是志愿者老伯伯们在情人节的时候，在医院里走动唱歌，为病人和医护人员带来一点健康和爱的希望。

老人们的歌声浑厚而又温柔，不知道是什么歌，只是间或地听到love，应该是关于爱情的歌。

我从来没有遇见过这种场景，真得很感人，在小小的电梯里，歌声洗涤着我疲倦沉重的心情，到了底层，电梯门打开，老人们一边唱一边走出了电梯。最后走出的老伯伯，拍了拍我的肩膀，朝我眨了眨眼睛。

觉得他们好像天使，在这个阴沉的冬天，在这个繁忙的下午，带来了阳光和爱。

喜欢这首歌，My Valentine。听的时候，心里忽然很难过，很想念他，因为工作我们总是不能在一起，拿着手机，把这首歌放给他听了。

Happy Valentine's Day.

 

[梦开始处的眷恋]

回复纵然平行的评论:
OMG! 来文学城出乎意料发现校友, 原来世界并不大哈~~~。仍旧记得帅气十足的小师弟当时在校园里才华横溢却腼腆谦虚的样子,你那宏亮又磁性的嗓音伴随力度的吉他声让多少MM心荡神怡, 嘻~~~。
喜欢流畅理性和感触细腻相融一体的文风呦。

[狼来了!]

落花MM，希望明年的情人节你们可以在一起，永远不分开！

[纵然平行]

Doc, let me get this straight; a. You are politely showing me the door (meaning: you are kicking me out from your blog, and bar from further writing). b. All this time, you believe my comments are fundamentally pointless, misleading and irreverent c. You were implying that I may be a gutless coward in certain realm. :)

That ought to hurt, and it is also a cruel and unusual punishment in my opinion. :(

But, for the sakes of your pts, your career, your health and the day you’ll wear the gown to give your proud speech. I think that I just have to bite the bullet to allow you have a peaceful mind. fair enough ?

[fog_rain_thunder]

相信他听到你放给他的歌，一定会明白你对他的思念。。我光凭想像都觉得鼻子酸酸的。

这种long distance的想念，只有经历过的人才明白个中滋味吧。有朋友们的祝福，固然可以高兴一下，但要是长时间坚持下来，还是得靠自己的乐观。。

[寂寞的蟋蟀]

Valetine's day的前一天,校园里发心形棒棒糖，还有一些本科生在门口要free hug，我体验了一下~~哈哈~~要是有机会真希望和落花姐hug一下~~~

[落花飘零]

影子，你也要加油么，呵呵。

双儿妈，祝福你和你的家人。

小草和流浪的人群，谢谢你们，有你们这样的朋友，一个人的情人节，也很愉快。

谢谢心湖真诚的留言，我很感动，真得谢谢你。

纵然平行, you complain that we are no longer able to express our feeling straight from heart, so here is my suggestion: how about start from your own post?

next time, save the effort of laying out those irrelevant words, just say what you want to say. express your true feeling here and stop hiding behind those long paragraph.:)

[心湖]

落花, 别觉得难过， 你们俩为这段感情所付出的努力一定会得到回报的。I had been through long distance relationship, too. It's bittersweet. Now, we just enjoy everyday together.:-)

愿有情人终成眷属!

Congratulations on your graduation and your parents' coming! No matter what you do, how busy you are, as long as your parents are with you, they will feel happy. Just cherish every moment you have with them. (I couldn't go
back to your last posting, because it makes me cry.)

Wish warmest wishes!

[流浪的人群]

回复蔓穗草的评论:

Sorry, I did not mean to hurt your feeling. 也祝你快乐，蔓穗草！

也许很多看过落花的文章的未婚男士们希望她未嫁。“恨不相逢未嫁时“。呵呵

落花，原谅我和蔓穗草的调侃。我们都希望你能幸福！

[纵然平行]

Sometimes, I think love is really strange thing. It redefines its meanings, shapes and colors constantly although the allure is still as fresh as day one.

Last Friday morning, after I was having a conference call in one of my colleague office, she showed me a Valentine’s card she received from her son, a 6 years old boy. The card reads “Dear Mommy, I want you know you will be ALWAYS my Valentine in the Whole Wide World!!!!”, there was a big red heart following the slant sentence. While I was admiring the little boy’s affirmative wording , I was joking with her “Vow, your son used the “A” and “W” words , this is really something.” “Yes, isn’t he cute?“, my proud colleague chuckled and added, “but, I bet , I’ll be out of window when he turns into a teenager.” We both laughed out loud. Chances are, my colleague’s instinct would be right.

I remember that in the mid of 90’s , I graduated from an university. Technically, then I was still a teenager, my view about love was in the period of “Romeo and Juliet” ( The moment Romeo and Juliet lay eyes on each other, that is it. Their fates are tied together eternally.) At a celebration party, I played my guitar and sang Bryan Adams‘ song “Straight From The Heart” (I chose that song to play because my classmates and I were about to leave our college years behind to make anther start in our life. I also liked the song’s tempo and acoustic sonority). The song was a crowd pleaser as I had expected, but with a twist. The strokes on the strings and my voice not only bought out girls’ tears but guys’ glassy eyes as well after they made me to play three times on the roll. Probably, I was only one didn’t get sentimental. But, boy, little I knew or prepared for the real world that I was about venturing out into can be very different from expectations, the love I hungered can be a double edged sword. The tough choices made can tear one apart.

The strange thing is when we grow, the definition of love would also grow and so does complexity. For one thing, we are no longer able to express our love straight from our hearts as a little kids do because the constrains and reality we have to face and accept. As a result, “West Side Story” becomes merely a tale on the stage.

[蔓穗草]

回复流浪的人群：你这样说让我很受伤诶，好像我不希望落花美眉有伴儿似的。那你就大错特错了。我非常钦佩落花美眉含蓄温柔又坚韧的性格，她有个自己爱的人和也被自己爱的人疼爱一点都不出乎我意料，只是她从未在这里提起过，所以我就调侃一下而已。

[流浪的人群]

回复蔓穗草的评论:

落花是个好女孩，应该有人爱她，疼她，想她，娶她！祝福你！祝你情人节快乐.

你是:
金风玉露一相逢，便胜却、人间无数。两情若是久长时，又岂在、朝朝暮暮。

[蔓穗草]

从头到尾，我就只看到一个信息，就是佳人原来有伴，亏那么多人老问来问去问来问去说美眉有bf了没有。。。嘻嘻！

[shuangmom]

We have walked hand in hand through so much all theses years....I think God for letting me have you, the most precious thing in my life...

－是我那不懂得浪漫的那位送给我的最浪漫的情人节礼物：）

香香软软的亲吻～

－是我的孩子们送给我的最甜美的情人节礼物：）

落花，请原谅我在你这儿BSO：） 今晚我实在是藏不住满溢心房的幸福。。。与你分享。

You are all my need, my love, my valentine...这也是我很喜欢的一首歌，谢谢分享！

祝有情人终成眷属！祝福落花！

[sunshadow]

快了，快了，就有人陪你看细水长流了。