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对不起！真的对不起！请原谅！
好多朋友的来信，留言，我没有回。本地的，外地的，越洋的电话没有接。party没有去。没有任何理由，只是想自己一个人呆着。也没想什么，没做什么。好像只有这样才舒服一点。
这有什么呀？小case! 多少人都走过来了，就你怕啊？没事的，没事的！...不说了，好么，我知道。
我足够理性么？足够强大么？足够坚韧么？不是的。骨子里，我很弱，就像我的身体。我会动不动就掉眼泪。不管有多少治愈的例子，那姚贝娜呢？不管手术多成功，将来不复发，那所有的罪还不是得受么？真正到底是不是扩散了，大夫说是要等到开了刀在手术台上才能确定的，现在都是推测。我躺下了，这个家怎么正常运转？短期可以有朋友帮，那长期呢？ 那万一呢？这些都是真实的想法，不论该不该，对不对，我的想法像是沿着自己轨道的火车，不论多少火车从我肩头沿着相反的方向擦肩而去，我还是沿着自己的轨道自顾自的跑着。
这也是真实的我。我不是一个可以在朋友的安慰下就可以舒缓的人。朋友们的安慰，劝解就像是远远的声音，我只想蜷缩在自己的洞洞里，像一只受伤的狐狸。
我在写字中寻找自己的笃定，把自己像在水中漂浮的球一样的心按下去，按下去，一直触到水底。告诉自己，不可以软弱，因为不容许，因为没有余地，就这么简单。可是我怎么还是想哭？
给我安慰的是老游。他并没有太多的语言安慰我，但他的心里真的是很宽松，很笃定。那天他在候诊室里等我做biopsy, 我出来一看，人家睡着了，睡得还挺沉，我还得坐一会，让他醒醒盹再走。给我乐的，真有他的！他是一个骨子里不worry的人。在他旁边，他的那种心宽会传染给你。想想看，要是我偏瘫了，我还不得哭得天昏地暗的，绝对死了算了。可他，还是挺乐观的活着。有过消沉，但他都悄悄藏了起来。现在的我，面对自己的病痛，才更深入地明白，这其实是挺了不起的一件事。
他会按按我肩膀，啥也不说。或者很实在的提醒我许多事实，我们当下的环境条件还是不错的，我想想，也是，心也就慢慢松了下来。
Could be worse. 对吧？冲着这几个字，乐了。又是新的一天，又是一个明亮的早晨！动动胳膊，动动腿，还是一个挺好的我，起床！嘿嘿。
好多朋友的来信，留言，我没有回。本地的，外地的，越洋的电话没有接。party没有去。没有任何理由，只是想自己一个人呆着。也没想什么，没做什么。好像只有这样才舒服一点。
这有什么呀？小case! 多少人都走过来了，就你怕啊？没事的，没事的！...不说了，好么，我知道。
我足够理性么？足够强大么？足够坚韧么？不是的。骨子里，我很弱，就像我的身体。我会动不动就掉眼泪。不管有多少治愈的例子，那姚贝娜呢？不管手术多成功，将来不复发，那所有的罪还不是得受么？真正到底是不是扩散了，大夫说是要等到开了刀在手术台上才能确定的，现在都是推测。我躺下了，这个家怎么正常运转？短期可以有朋友帮，那长期呢？ 那万一呢？这些都是真实的想法，不论该不该，对不对，我的想法像是沿着自己轨道的火车，不论多少火车从我肩头沿着相反的方向擦肩而去，我还是沿着自己的轨道自顾自的跑着。
这也是真实的我。我不是一个可以在朋友的安慰下就可以舒缓的人。朋友们的安慰，劝解就像是远远的声音，我只想蜷缩在自己的洞洞里，像一只受伤的狐狸。
我在写字中寻找自己的笃定，把自己像在水中漂浮的球一样的心按下去，按下去，一直触到水底。告诉自己，不可以软弱，因为不容许，因为没有余地，就这么简单。可是我怎么还是想哭？
给我安慰的是老游。他并没有太多的语言安慰我，但他的心里真的是很宽松，很笃定。那天他在候诊室里等我做biopsy, 我出来一看，人家睡着了，睡得还挺沉，我还得坐一会，让他醒醒盹再走。给我乐的，真有他的！他是一个骨子里不worry的人。在他旁边，他的那种心宽会传染给你。想想看，要是我偏瘫了，我还不得哭得天昏地暗的，绝对死了算了。可他，还是挺乐观的活着。有过消沉，但他都悄悄藏了起来。现在的我，面对自己的病痛，才更深入地明白，这其实是挺了不起的一件事。
他会按按我肩膀，啥也不说。或者很实在的提醒我许多事实，我们当下的环境条件还是不错的，我想想，也是，心也就慢慢松了下来。
Could be worse. 对吧？冲着这几个字，乐了。又是新的一天，又是一个明亮的早晨！动动胳膊，动动腿，还是一个挺好的我，起床！嘿嘿。
Thank you for your praising.
Forgot something. All the nuts are good. The almond is good for fight with cancer, and good for decrease the cholesterol and lose weight. The overweigh, especially the big tummy is connected with all kinds of cancers.
The eggs are considered as "hot" food, because the egg yolk could increase the cholesterol, and make the cold, fever, other sickness worse. So you and your husband should not eat it, but the egg white.
The dark color food are more valuable. So all the dark green( add the leaks, spinaches), red( add the purple cabbages), black color food should eat more.
Should eat one yogurt a day.
If you have any question, please just feel free to ask me. It 's my pleasure to answer you and help you! All the people in WXC love you and want to help you!
1. Drink. Warm tea, coffee, boiled water, low fat milk. Should drink 6 to 7 cups a day. Especially drinking a cup of honey(1 table spoon) and vinegar(3 to 4 table spoons) with warm water, plus 2 groves of lemonade every morning after got up. And drink 4 sips to 1 cup of warm water after the pulling and slapping exercise and hot bathing before go to sleep.
2. Food. Eat 2 to 4(for you) raw smashed garlic every night. It could be soaked in the mixed honey and vinegar, since it 's very hot. Then, eat some dark chocolate. Which is good for the liver, good for detoxify, can kill the cancer cells and strengthen the heart, and have more pee. The coco ingredient the higher is the better, the sugar ingredient the lower is the better. I like the one at Trader Joe 's, which contains more than 80% of coco, and the sugar only 3 or 5%.
Fruits: For every one, 1 apple a day, keep the Dr. away. But for you, you need more citrons, Vitamin C. to fight with the cancer cells. So need one orange, one tangerine, one lemon(you can squeeze it onto the fish to eat). Plus water melon, grapes, banana, to have more pee to be detoxified. Kiwi, papaya, blue berry and straw berry, pineapple, avocado that you can eat, too.
Vegetables. Broccoli, cauliflower, radish, Dong Gua, bitter melon, kale, beets, carrots, garlic, onion, tomatoes, the regular seaweeds( Haidai) and the purple seaweeds( Zicai). If you sautéed the tomatoes with onions, Zicai and egg beaters, which is good for prostate, breast, ovarian cancers prevention and fighting. All these veggies are cancer prevention and fighting natural medicine!
Starch and fiber. Yam, sweet potato, Shanyao; Black rice, whole wheat flour, wheat bran, black sesame, flax seeds. Should eat every day.
Beans. Black and green and red beans.
Sea Food. Fish, eel, sea cucumber.
Poultry. Local chicken, black chicken(is the best).
Flavor. No salt. No artificial sugar. Fish oil, olive oil, sesame oil are fine. More vinegar. Since its specialty is cancer and stone prevention and fighting.
Oh, do not forget to get sunlight! The tanned dark skin is way more healthier than the pale skin!
All said above are good for heart, blood pressure, and all the organs, vessels, to prevent or heal all the illnesses as well, so are good for your husband.
Wish you and your husband all the best! I will keep my eyes on you, and keep in touch with you. God bless you and your family!
To help the circulation, strengthen the cardio, you can just keep walking as much as possible, twice a day, 1 hr at the time. I learnt that you have a treadmill at home. Of course you can still keep ballroom dancing. Other than that, there are several ways that can help you:
1. Dumbbells lifting. You may go to Wal-Mart or Target to get two 8 lbs. each. You can hold by each hand, upward till the arms straight. Repeat 100 times or 200 times each time, then gradually increase to 300, 400, 500, 600, 700, 800. You can be very warm and sweat, and you will lose weight, too.
2.Pulling and slapping. Step 1., Use 2 hands pulling your ears from the top to bottom, from the inside to outside 100 times in the same time; Step 2., Use 2 hands slapping your gallbladder meridians from the hip to hill, then from the hill up to the hip 100 times in the same time; Step 3., 2 hands stretching forward, then crossing, then departing to each side, to make circle for 100 times; Step 4., Have your body to be bent and head down, 2 hands slapping your low back on your kidneys 100 times; Step 5., Slapping your behind the elbows 200 times each side; Step 6., Have your head down, towards the ground, your waist to be bent, 2 hands slapping your behind the knees for 200 times with regular pace first, then 120 times with fast pace. After this, you will be very warm, even sweated, and slept like a baby.
3. Taking hot bath every night before go to sleep, 30 minutes at the time.
4. Get a medical equipment hydrocollator. Just the minimum one. But you have to order more moist heating pads. You add the water to the tank, have the pads to be immersed, then connected with the power, let the water to be boiled.Then you lie down, put each on your breast along with your heart and lungs for 20 to 30 minutes. The pad will be very hot, you have to wrap it with the towel. And to keep the heat to stay, you have to put it into a plastic bag. Then covered with towel again. The same time you can put each on your knees, no matter you have arthritis or not. Since help the knees is help the heart as well. After that, you have to lying down on your tummy, have your husband to put 3 from your neck to the low back for 20 to 30 minutes, in order to help the spinal cord, bone marrow( when your bone marrow is plenty, it will produce a lot stem cells. When your stem cells are plenty, you will have more red cells and T cells to fight with poor circulation, heart disease and cancer), to help all the muscles and organs,to remove the toxin, to kill the germs, bacterial and cancer cells.
Your husband got uncontrolled blood pressure, that caused the hemorrhage right? If he can do all 4 above with you together, just add the pads to his disabled hand and leg, he will be recovered, too. His circulation is very poor. No circulation, no power! That 's why he can not be fully recovered. I treat a post-stroke foot ball player originally from Fl., whose right hand was got stuck to the side and whose fingers were curled, could not be opened and straight. During the treatment, his vessels were getting bigger, his arm and palm were getting red. After the treatment, his hand no more got stuck with his side and his fingers could be opened up! Good luck to you and your husband!
我说什么你看不懂吗？我所说的是心理承受面，没看到人家夜深人静时的泪水？如果是普通患病至于吗？我不是医生说不清楚百分比，你那么能干，以后患癌症都来看你，不要看医生了，行吗？
不懂有些人想卖什么药，对别人兴师问罪的。
说什么呢?!!!
你不知道美国最新乳腺癌治疗统计报道呀,现在早期乳腺癌 治愈已经达到100%, 注意说的是早期, 南山碧竹是早期二型乳腺癌, 术后,还会做基因检测, 二期也是百分之90多, 目前,乳腺癌是属于预后最好的之一(最好的是甲状腺癌97%,平均, 早期也是100%,所以,预后还是取决于早发现 )
基因检测,就是为了找到最好的治疗和预防,所以,碧竹没有问题,会颐养天年的!
遇上这样的事，除了设法应对，别无他法。凭你的成熟，不需别人指点。除了说一句为你祝福外，提供一篇我以前的博文，希望你一定读一读，也许对你做决定有帮助。
鲜为人知的癌症新说 – 正确解读统计数据
http://blog.wenxuecity.com/myblog/59896/201401/15558.html
为你献上祝福。祝早日好起来。
所以，一定要保持一个好心情。
真诚地谢谢你。
真心期望你和你的老游立即行动起来，学习和专研癌症的基本知识，既要熟知传统癌症治疗方法，也要了解替代疗法，比如中医疗法。任何能够治愈你的癌症的疗法就是你需要的疗法，无论它是属于西医还是中医，无论它是属于美国还是美国。
美国国立医学院即倡导传统癌症治疗方法，也不否定替代疗法，这代表的是美国政府的态度，一个很公正的态度，希望能够引起你的足够重视。
情多也累人。郁达夫说得不错。所以，呼吁大伙儿不要过多打搅。
至于有些网友的闲言碎语，就别理她了。这种小气的人还真少见。
虽然不真正认识你，但也像很多你的朋友一样，一直默默关注你们的近况。但请不要把这个当作你心里上的任何负担，尤其是在这个生死关头！不想更新的时候就不更，不想回应别人的时候咱就不回，谁没有任性的时候呢：）
偶然看到你的情况.如果愿意尝试一个物理疗法(有人有效果,无任何副作用,自己可以操作),请把联系电话发给CL5858@AOL.COM.
相信会有机会.
祝福你!
给你留个祝福， 就是让你知道， 我们在关注你。。。你不用回的， 你尽管做你自己要做的事。
赞成。
人的恐惧来自对未来的不确定，但佛法可以让我们安心和释疑。