夫妻关系是神所赐予的甜蜜关系,预表了耶稣与信徒的关系。创世纪里神看到亚当独居不好,给她配了妻子夏娃做伴儿。箴言书说,房屋财产乃祖宗所遗留,唯贤惠的妻是耶和华所赐。一项调查发现即使是最恩爱的夫妻,一生中他们大脑里也会闪现数次的离婚念头。可见,婚姻虽甜蜜但也脆弱。感谢神,我们基督徒的婚姻有个大爱满满的第三者,组成了我们稳固的婚姻三角形。他就是我们的耶稣基督! 当我们看到他为了我们的罪而牺牲时,面对他的如此大爱,谁还求自己的益处呢?夫妻之间的分歧还算的了什么呢?夫妇都沐浴在耶稣基督的爱里的时候,相处的智慧就属灵了(合一),此乃属地的智慧所不能及,岂还有属世纷争? 纵然只有一方信主,大爱通过你在生活中每天彰显的时候,对方也许被感化信耶稣。当我们透过信心看到神与圣灵的大能的时候,这一切都将成就; 反之,看不到神而仅凭人之力的时候,夫妻之间的爱是何等的匮乏。多言无益,重在体验,切记每天待在耶稣的爱里,神祝福您的夫妻关系。阿们!
西3:13 倘若这人与那人有嫌隙、总要彼此包容、彼此饶恕.主怎样饶恕了你们、你们也要怎样饶恕人。
bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do
弗5:25 你们作丈夫的、要爱你们的妻子、正如基督爱教会、为教会舍己.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it;
弗5:28 丈夫也当照样爱妻子、如同爱自己的身子.爱妻子、便是爱自己了。
Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself.
弗5:24 教会怎样顺服基督、妻子也要怎样凡事顺服丈夫。
But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything.