Abnormalralation:Seek 4 help!
(2007-01-31 00:09:02)
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Just read your story and feel very sympathized about your situation. It is a difficult situation and I strongly suggest both of you should calm down and seek for help, seriously.
Your relationship may be abnormal in your eyes, but it must have a reason. Maybe something changed him or you, maybe you two have difficulty in communication. Try stopping abusing each other and talk to a marriage counsellor or some other counsellor. BBS or forums aren't a good way to seek for serious help. A professional may understand you better, and may give you some good advices which could help both of you out.
There are lots of people suffering from bad relationship in their marriages or partnerships. It is not a bad thing that stops you from seeking help. In Australia there are lots of professional counselling services, some of them free of charge. I strongly suggest you to contact counselling services instead of trying to easy your pain on the internet. People here may not be helpful and some of them might have given you wrose feeling.
I don't know where you are, and if you are in Sydney, and if you think your english isn't good enough to cope with professional counselling sessions, and you'd like to talk to people in your mother tongue, you can ring the following number: (02) 9789 4587, and make a booking. It is a free of charge counselling service and I wish it may help you somehow.
Their websites:
http://cass.chinatown.com.au/chinese/services/pdc/pdc.htm
http://www.acca.org.au/section_1_cn.asp?sectionid=19&id=20
Don't feel hesitating to contact them or say your feeling out. We are here to help you, always.
Wish you feel better now.