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我在耶和华的手中要作华冠，在我父神的手中必作为冕旒
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(2022-03-17 19:32:02)
Thephilosophyoflifeconsistsoftwoaspects: amapofreality-anunderstandingofwhatlifeisallabout,ofnatureandthecosmos ahierarchyofvalues-aperceptionofwhichthingsaremoreimportantthanothersThewisdomis"seeingbigthingsasbig,andsmallthingsassmall."Clarificationofvaluesmeansthatweknowwhichvaluesareguidingourlives.Valuemeanswhatisworthwhile.Corevaluesmeanwhataremostimportantforyourwellness.Theproblem...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-16 18:54:14)
weshouldn'tallowtheconditioningsfromthepasttodetermineourpresentbehaviorwithoutourconsciousconsent. weshouldn'tallowthepresentsurroundingsandhtethoughtlessnessofotherstodetermineourpresentstateofbeing.Arewehelplesslyconditionedbyoursurroundings?Whensomeonesayssomethingnastyoutofthoughtlessnessorignorance,areweenwarppedwithresentmentthatruinstherestofourday?ordowedetermineourownstateofbein...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-15 18:58:54)
Worryprodsustoattendtounresolvedproblemsandpreventsusfrombecomingirresponsibleperson.Itisalsoamajorsourceofhumanunhappiness.Itrobsusofsleepandblissfuljoy.Itmakeslifeheavyandussullen.Worryisacrisisthatoftencomesfromtheaccumulationoftasksthathavenotbeenproperlyattendedtoandresolved.3factorscontributetoworry: fear wrongbeliefs ineffectiveproblem-solvingskillsFearIhavenotfoundthewaytoovercomefearyet.T...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-14 21:12:41)
Theessenceofloveisaconcernforthewelfareoftheother.Loveisessentiallyanexpressionofourhighernature.Thelowertriangle,beingacreatureofneedsanddesires,isconcernedaboutthesatisfactionofpersonalneeds.It'sorientedtowardgetting,ratherthangiving.Humanbeingsrespondpositivelytotheloveofotherpeople.Butsuchlovemustbebehaviourallyexpressed,suchasakindword,asmile,atouch,ahug,apraise,aphonecall,aninconvenienth...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-12 19:34:41)
Threefactorscontributetowholesomeandeffectiverelationships:
self-awareness
activelistening
harmoniousassertiveness
Activelistening:
helpfulbehaviorthatcontributestoeffectivelistening
eyecontact
askclarifyingquestions
nods
appropriatefacialexpression
leansforward
affirmswhatissaid
notdistrctedbyotherthings
Effectonspeaker
feelencouraged
fee...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-12 19:15:03)
Thefearofdeathcanbeduetothefearofthepainofdeathorfearofannihilationorfearofgoingtohellorfearofseparationfromlovedonesoracombinationofthese.I'mafraidthesufferingassociatedwiththedyingprocessandthefactthatIhaveneverlivedmytruenature. ignorance:people(includingmyself)fearthatdeathmeanstheendofeverything.Thebestwaytoconquerthisfearistofindoutwhetherthereislifeafterdeath.Itisalmostimpossibletoverif...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-09 07:46:06)
Knowledgeisatranslationofanexperience,asymbolizationonanotherlevel.Itisarecordingofathingthathashappenedandhenceisalwaysofthepast.Awarenssisofthepresent.Itisnotatranslation,butreatheranexperiencing.Knowledgeaboutsomethinginvolvesnamingitandclassifyingitaccordingtosomeprearrangedcategoriesinourmind,basedonasetofinformationaboutit.Itisautomaticandhappenssofastthatwedon'ttakenoteofitsdynamicsanym...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-08 19:06:17)
Wearebornimperfectwiththeseedofperfectionburieddeepwithin,ofimperfectparents,withinanimperfectsociety.Asaresultoftheseimperfectfoundations,webungleourlivestimeandgetwounded,andfeelthesorrowandpainofliving.Humanperfectiondoesn;tmeanthatwebecomegodsbutbecomeonethathasreachedthehighestpotentialswithinourselvesthatmaymakeuslooksuperhuman.CarlJungcallsthismaturationprocess"individuation",inwh...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-08 18:35:00)
Therealizationthatourpersonalityistheproductofconditioningisimportant.Theprimaryconditioningsthataremostsusceptibletointernalandexternalconflictsarethefollowing: fearreactions prejudices,likesanddislikes resentmentsandattachments copingmechanisms:stress,irritationandangerConditioningplaysavitalroleintheformationofthethinking,attitudes,reactionpatternsandhabitsofindividuals.Conditioningscangodeepin...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-06 19:59:33)
Thepinnacleofself-transformationisthediscoveryofourhighernature-ourtruenature.Therealizationfreesusfromtheprisonofthepersonalityorthevehiclesthatweuse.Personalityisessentiallyaproductofconditionings,andwearevirtuallyprisonersofsuchconditionings.Thediscoveryofthatwhichisbeyondthepersonalityisthekeytofreedom.Whenourmotivationismerelytobecomebetterortoimproveourselvesortobemoresuccessfuloreffective,t...[阅读全文]
