You will never be free until you stop trying to be admired

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Here is The truth that most people will never see throughout their whole entire lives. You will never be free until you stop trying to be admired. That is the absolute trap. We curate ourselves for applause and what do we call it? Empowerment!

But if your confidence depends on being liked, you are not free. You are enslaved by the person that you depend on. So there’s a completely another way and you already knew it. You were born with this. This is the unscripted life. so it’s awkward. It’s quiet at first if your neurology program for a life of chaos and weirdness. What is that new stillness gonna feel like ? It’s gonna feel like a disruption. peace will not feel peaceful if you’re neurology wired for chaos, but guess what it is absolutely real and it’s going to be real and once you taste that level of realness, even just a sip of that you’re never gonna return to this plastic playground of performance.

 

这是一个大多数人一生都无法看到的真相。你只有停止追求被崇拜，才能真正获得自由。这是一个绝对的陷阱。
我们为了掌声而精心塑造自己，我们称之为“赋能”！

但如果你的自信依赖于被喜欢，你就不自由。

你被你所依赖的人奴役。
所以，还有完全不同的另一种方式，你早已知道。你生来就有这种本能。这就是未经编排的生活，所以它会显得笨拙。一开始会很安静，如果你的神经系统被编程为过一种混乱和怪异的生活，那种新的宁静会是什么感觉？它会感觉像一种干扰。如果你的神经系统习惯了混乱，和平就不会让你感到平静，但猜猜看，它是绝对真实的，它将会是真实的，一旦你品尝到那种真实，哪怕只是一小口，你也永远不会回到这个表演的塑料游乐场。