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真不让人省心

(2018-07-07 15:18:13) 下一个

吃晚饭时,TM 告诉我, D 要与 S 和S的几个朋友(都是女孩),去酒吧 玩. 然后sleep over. 

我和TM对D的这个朋友S 没有好印象. 她们上高中时,S 就时常邀请D玩到很晚才回来。后来我才知道,跟她们在一起玩儿的,竟是两个高中毕业,就出来打工的社会青年。 也不知道 S是怎么跟他们混到一起的。

 

那时, D 非常叛逆。家长的话不听,朋友一喊就走。 当时气得我,就想撒手不管了。 让她自生自灭吧!

 

时隔三年,俩人暑假。 又凑到了一起。

 

我问TM,你怎么跟TA说的?

她妈说,我是不喜欢S。

我说,不是喜欢不喜欢的问题!这是大是大非的原则问题!如果TA问我,我的回答是No!

 

TMD,几个年轻女孩儿,深更半夜到酒吧去混! 你想干嘛啊! 招人呐? 招也别在这种地方招人啦。 深更半夜在酒吧里鬼混的,都是些下三滥。

 

盛气之下,立刻给D发微信。表明我的态度。

 

@D? Mom told me you are going to sleep over with S and a bouch of girls. If you are asking us. We both say NO. S is not the girl growing up with good family education. she has no rules in her family or she never listen to her parents if there is a rule. she grow up in wild.  She already gave you the bad impact in your life. We wish you realize it after 3  years. but you didn,t. 

 

and we know you are aldult now. we can,t control you. if you decide to go , its your choice. We can't stop you.

 

We hope you could listen to us, as parents, We dont want see you slip down to a wrong way. and I,d like talk with you about S. We feel more confortable if you are with E. He is from a thealth family.

 

Mom is scared aganst you. So I speak up. I hope you understand.

 

发完微信,我对TM说。 你看一下,发表一下你的意见。 别装做没看见。

TM说, 我不知道该说啥。

 

。。。。!TMD 气死我了! 说! 你同意我!

 

晚上, D 和TM特意来找我谈。 D 还是想要去。 说 S 不是我想象的那样。 我说,OK, as I said, it's your choice. 但我希望,你不要在酒吧呆到,超过12点. 那是是非之地,decent people won't go there.  你看过不少 ID 电视节目吧.

 

D说,我会小心的.  我知道.

 

D 来找我谈,说明她对爸爸还有 respect. 没有争吵,没有红脸. 我的话TA也听进去了. 也就是这样了. 比以前好多了.

 

半夜,D 微信, we didn't go out.

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