Niuniuisreallygrowingbig.somanypplwouldthinkthatshelookslike11or12yearsoldgivenherheight.yet,sheisalittledealinggirltomealways..acoupleweeksago,inoticedthatsheismorecaringaboutherlooking..shewasinshower,andasalways,singingintheshowerandhavingagoodtimeallbyherself.andididnotbothertocheckonher.thenatdinner,iwaslookingather,andrealizedthathereyeslookedsomewhatdifferent.andiaskedherwhatdidshedowithher...[
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Iknowthatonedaywheniamreallyold,iwillberegrettfulformanythings.onethingidon'tunderstandmyselfisthatifeellikeiamlivingforothers.Idothingsnotnecessarilyformyself,rathertomakeothershappy.butthetruthisthatothersareprobablynotnecessarilyhappywithwhatididforthem,somaybeitshouldjuststayastrytobehappymyselfbuttrynottoupsetothers.ontheotherends,afewtimesididthingsinmyownway,withoutaskingpermissionfromother...[
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iremembertheconceptofpersonalspacewasintroducedtomebyJoewhenifirstlivedinwiththeRiley's.Katie,beinga4yroldwassoclosetomeandenjoyedplayingwithmealot.iwasofcourse,sohappythatwegotalongsowelluntilonedayJoehadaseriousconversationwithme..hetoldmethatKatiewasalittlebitupsetasiwastooclosetoherwhenweplayortalkphysically.heaskedmeifiknowwhat"personalspace"meant..ididnotknow.theconversationmademequiteuneasy...[
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iguessmostpeopleviewmeasaprettysuccessfulbusinesswoman..andiam,justrelativelyspeaking.whatcontributestomymodestsuccessisthefactthatialwaysusescommonsense.inbusiness,youdealwithpeople,nomatteryourboss,yourpeeroryoursubordinate,oryouropponants,andyouwanttofigureoutthatwhatmattersmosttothem..thinkingintheirshoes.yet,recentlyirealizedthatthenewgenerationisformingthatihavebeenbecomingmoreandmoretheseni...[
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forthefirsttime,myhubbyandiwentgolfing.itwasreallyaverynicefridayafternooninits70s..feelslikethebestspringdayeven,yetsummerisnottoofar.wetookalessontogether,andspentagooddealoftimeonthedrivingrangetopracticeswing.iactuallyenjoythatpartalot.thenweplayedabout5holes.theweatherwasperfact,thewindblowingyetnottoocold;thelandscapeofthegolfcourseissosoothingandallgreen,nowondersomanypeoplefallinlovewithth...[
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wefinallytaughterourgirlhowtoplaymajiangaboutacouplemonthsagoaftershehadlearnedhowtoplaymexicantrain.ithinkmexicantrainwasagoodpre-causeformajiang.atanyrate,itwasnotthathardtoteachherandwehavebeenplayingalotsincethen..alwaysonfridayeve..ienjoyfridayeveafterawholeweekofhardworking.shewasagoodlearnedandpickedupreallyquick.sofar,thereareafewoccasionsthatshereallysosurprisedus..1)consecutivelywinninga...[
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idont'thinkiamagooddaughter.Iamveryclosetomyparents,atleastfrommyheart.yetmarriageanddistancecreatessomegapsbetweenus.Ienjoytalkingwithmyparents,especiallymymomonthephone,ori'dalwayswishtogobackeachyeartoseethem.justwalkingonthestreetorshoppingtogether,orsittingatthedinnertable.allthedetailsoflifemakesthememoryunforgettable.momlikestotellmethatsheisalwaysmissingme,andshelovesmedeeply.iamkindoffeel...[
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hubbyrealizedthatiwasnotsohappyyesterdaywheniwentbackhome...askedwhatwaswrong..icouldn'tsayexactly,itwasjustafeeling..ifeellikeaemptysoulwalking...lifeisprettymeaninglesswithgoodpassion..iusedtohavepassionformanythings,andthinkingpositively..butnotanymore..[
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anothernewyear!butthisisthe15thnewyearthatididnotspendwithmyparents.thisyearithitmesobadlyaboutbeingherewithoutmyparents..inlawsaredifferent..wehavefriendsoverfordinner,andispendtheweekendthinkingofthemenuandreallygotnervouscookingoutfromthecrowd...afterabusydaywhentheguestsleft,ifeelsoemptymindedaswhatisreallythetruemeaningoflife/isitreallysomuchfortobespendingtimewithfriendsthataremorefromthein-...[
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iranintoafriendyesterdayonthewayhome.chattedandhementionedaPAtradethathewasinandoutforthedayandyieldhugeprofit,morethanmostworkingclasses'bonusforayear.thenhewentonhalf-waycomplainingaboutthathiswifeseemsindifferentandnotinterestedwiththeprofithemade..saidthathewishedshecouldbemoregratefulaboutthetrades..guessasihavetowork7/11dailyandyetwithoutsuchahugewindfall,iwasalittlebitjealousofhiswifewhodoe...[
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