静秋，钦佩你的淡定，羡慕你拥有一段在最美的青春岁月 -Mango11- ♀ (218 bytes) (19 reads) 2006-03-20
里最难忘的回忆，痛惜你曾经历的悲痛。坚信老三和你从来没有分开过，也永远不会。。。祝福你们永远。。。

感谢你和我们分享你的故事，也感谢艾米和HY精彩的文本。出书吧，我希望能有辛珍藏一本。。。

再次感谢！！！

回复：静秋答网友 (链接) -Megan- ♀ (1224 bytes) (166 reads) 2006-03-21
Jing Qiu:
Thank you for the candid explanation.

1. What you experienced are typical for your generation and understandable. In 50s, 60s and part of 70s, love between two individuals was not encouraged,in some weird way "shameful". Teenagers at that time were very lack of education on love, relationship between man and woman. They did not expect to learn that from society, nor in most family.

In late 70s and 80s, finally there were more books to read. Most people got their knowlege from literature. They explored and experienced with some pride and some guilty feeling of sin from our ancient culture. Learning to respect each other came later because it is more difficult to learn. To me, Lao San was a rarity because he understands love and respect at time most young people did not.

2. Your sense of preparing for the worst even in good days was also quite a common attitude. In those enviroment, individual was so powerless, any change in society can turn one's life upside down.

3. Lao San showed wisdom in understanding love, I think he would understand marriage needs cultivation and would be a good husband.

4. I like your "Loser's philosopher".

Thank you for sharing your story with us.

由 meimei66 ♀     发表评论于 2006-03-23 17:29:00

Laoshan is an angel to show how the true love is. His beautiful soul lives forever in our minds. I admire his brave and unselfish love. Also, I believe he is happy in the heaven.

由 梦桐 ♀     发表评论于 2006-03-24 17:35:55

带给老三：

在你逝去三十年后，有幸通过艾米的文字认识了你。这几十天来，为你和静秋的喜而喜，哭而哭。最后的几天，难过的好几天半夜醒来，无法再入眠。

相信人死不能复生，所以为你英年早逝痛心。但更相信死去的只是你的躯体，你的肉身，而你高尚的灵魂一直以来就飞翔在一个我们不知道的地方，静静地守护着你的爱人，让她相信这个世界是有真爱的，也让更多认识你的人懂得珍视生命，珍惜自己的家人，朋友。

愿你在天之灵安息。

因为最近一直心情不好,好久没有跟贴了可是每天也在追着看, -misa---- ♀ (336 bytes) (33 reads) 2006-03-19
今天无论如何要写一下了.

如果可以选择的话,老三一定会选择让自己来承受失去静秋的痛苦, 老三最后那样做,实在别无选择,况且静秋还曾经说过那样的话.

死亡使爱永恒.

流泪不止，看着静秋“叫不出声，叫不出他的名字”，心里急替她叫 -mitten- ♀ (138 bytes) (133
流泪不止，看着静秋“叫不出声，叫不出他的名字”，心里急替她叫，真希望老三能睁开眼睛，能笑，当看到“两滴红色的、晶莹的泪。”我的心也流泪。。reads) 2006-03-19