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(2025-07-27 13:58:11)

丹麦哲学家克尔凯郭尔在饱受抑郁症折磨后，就曾说过：人生有三种绝望——不知道自我，不愿意拥有自我，不能够拥有自我。 ThequoteattributedtotheDanishphilosopherSørenKierkegaard,“Therearethreekindsofdespair:notknowingoneself,notwantingtobeoneself,notbeingabletobeoneself,”isaparaphraseofideasfoundinhiswork*TheSicknessUntoDeath*,publishedin1849underthepseudonymAnti-Climacus.T...[阅读全文]

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父母子女一场，终要成为彼此有着血缘关系的局外人

(2025-07-27 12:28:37)

几年前读过M.ScottPeck的4本书，尤其是“THEROADLESSTRAVELED”，读过中英两个版本.虽然在后来了解到他本人后期人生也非如他所写的那样过着一种真实地有COURAGE的人生，但他的文字仍然启发过我对自己，对生活的认知，是对我有很多价值的。我依然认为，SCOTTPECK的很多文字的确是可以流传千古： https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/3061.M_Scott_Peck 这也再次让我认识到，从[阅读全文]

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为何校园年轻人认为自己懂得一切

(2025-07-26 19:03:46)

ByGrok：现代年轻人认为自己懂得一切，尽管他们的生活经验仍局限于校园之内，可能由以下原因造成：信息过载与互联网的影响：互联网和社交媒体提供了海量信息，年轻人通过网络接触到各种观点、知识和讨论，容易产生一种“已知全貌”的错觉。短视频、论坛和社交平台上的碎片化信息让他们快速了解许多话题，但这些信息往往缺乏深度，容易让人高估自己的理解[阅读全文]

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You will never be free until you stop trying to be admired

(2025-07-26 11:15:41)

https://youtube.com/shorts/0i0YhNrkc4E?si=gzN3VZ0Zlydy0Dd9HereisThetruththatmostpeoplewillneverseethroughouttheirwholeentirelives.Youwillneverbefreeuntilyoustoptryingtobeadmired.Thatistheabsolutetrap.Wecurateourselvesforapplauseandwhatdowecallit?Empowerment!Butifyourconfidencedependsonbeingliked,youarenotfree.Youareenslavedbythepersonthatyoudependon.Sothere’sacompletelyanotherwayandyoualread...[阅读全文]

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你的孩子，并不是你的孩子

(2025-07-26 08:44:57)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8DSOpsNkt8 Yourchildrenarenotyourchildren.
TheyarethesonsanddaughtersofLife'slongingforitself.
Theycomethroughyoubutnotfromyou,Andthoughtheyarewithyou,yettheybelongnottoyou.
Youmaygivethemyourlovebutnotyourthoughts.
Fortheyhavetheirownthoughts.
Youmayhousetheirbodiesbutnottheirsouls
Fortheirsoulsdwellinthehouseoftomorrow,which...[阅读全文]

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读到并想记录下来的点滴

(2025-07-25 13:19:40)

"Nothinghasastrongerinfluencepsychologicallyontheirenvironmentandespeciallyontheirchildrenthantheunlivedlifeoftheparent."——CarlJung没有什么比父母未实现的人生对他们的环境，特别是对他们的孩子，在心理上产生更大的影响。**********Peoplehastentojudgeinordernottobejudgedthemselves.-Camus'novelTheFall(1956)”人为了自己不被审判，就匆匆忙忙地审判别人“-加缪********Without...[阅读全文]

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Self-awareness & Self introspection

(2025-07-24 10:01:44)

**Self-awareness**istheabilitytorecognizeandunderstandyourownthoughts,emotions,behaviors,andmotivations.Itinvolvesbeingconsciousofyourinternalstatesandhowtheyinfluenceyouractions,aswellasperceivingyourselfasadistinctentitywithuniquecharacteristics.It’slikehavingamentalmirrortoobserveyourownmindandexistence.**Self-retrospection**istheprocessofreflectingonyourpastthoughts,actions,orexperiences...[阅读全文]

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The art of being yourself

(2025-07-22 14:14:15)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=veEQQ-N9xWUTheartofbeingyourself|CarolineMcHugh|TEDxMiltonKeynesWomen“ifyouonlyknewhowlittletimepeopleeverydayspendthinkingaboutyou,youwouldstopworryingaboutit”
Peoplewhoarefrightenedtobethemselveswillworkforthosewhoaren'tafraid.Humilityisnotthinkinglessofyourself.Humilityisthinkingaboutyourselfless"Truehumilityisnotthinkinglessofyourselfbut...[阅读全文]

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未来十年的你

(2025-07-21 15:15:54)

Wheredoyouseeyourselfin10years?It’sacommonquestionemployersask.Notmanypeoplethinkaboutthemselvesinthenextdecade.Thinkingaboutyourlifeinthenexttenyearssoundsunrealisticorimpractical.Butit’sexactlywhatyouneedtodesignthelifeyouwant.Whenwasthelasttimeyouthoughtdeeplyaboutyourlife?Ifyouarelikemostpeople,youthinkmonthtomonthoryeartoyear.TonyRobbinswasright,“Mostofthechallengesthatwehav...[阅读全文]

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Knowing yourself

(2025-07-21 13:42:48)

Self-awarenessisthewillandtheskilltounderstandyourselfandhowothersseeyou. --- Yourlifeisareflectionofyourviews,habits,attitudes,beliefs,thoughts,fears,worriesandperceptions.Andwhetherornotyou’reawareofit,allthesethingscometogethertoshapeyourmindset,whoyouareandthetrajectoryofyourlife. Aristotlewasright,“Knowingyourselfisthebeginningofallwisdom.” LaoTzualsosaid,“...[阅读全文]

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