IwrotemyblogsinEnglishtoimprovethewritingskill.AlsoImostlyuseacomputerwithoutChinesesoftwaretowrite.Mostimportantly,Iwouldlikemydaughtertobeabletoreadthem.
Mydaughteristheonlychildwehave.Sheaskedwhywecan’tgiveheranoldersisteratonetime.Shewantedanoldsistertoplayandtoblamewhensomethinggetsbroken.Shefeelssheprobablycanstillbossaroundastheteachingisalwaystheelderoneshouldbeniceandhelpingtheyounge...[
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第一次听到“白(人)垃圾”这个词,是从我的一位白人同学嘴里,当时就愣住了,这么BH。我不过是有兴趣问问一个市区里爵士乐的赶集,据说有音乐,有小摊,游人如织,热闹。那位同学是当地的,就想问问什么样的人在那,结果看看他撇嘴吐出这么一个词,这位和着与这聚会有仇,吓得我没敢再问,去了也没敢张扬。去了这么一次,红黄白黑绿色都有,到底怎么样的是”[
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Imarriedtoahusbandwholovesthebasicpleasuregoodfoodoffers.ThatisexceptAlcohol.Hewouldbefoundunderthetablewithin10minutesofaglassofwineorabottleofbearinthebestscenario.Noneedtodescribetheworstscenariohere.ItisquiteinterestingfactconsideringthathecamefromafamilywhoownedthemostfamousFrenchrestaurantinoldChina.Hisgradpawasabusinessmanlovedwesterncultureandhadmanyforeignfriends.Heprobablypassedawaytooea...[
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IgobacktoChinaatleastonceeveryyear.Tospendtimewithmyparents,relativesandfriendsisthemainreason.Onewouldprobablyagreethatyoushouldlesslikelytobealertedbythetouchoftimeonpeopleifyouseethemoftenenough.I,however,founditisnottrueforoneofmyaunts,Su.EachtimeIsawherinthelast10years,therehavebeenthesaddeningprogressingsignsofaginghardtoignore.AuntieSuisthewifeofmyfather’soldbrotherUncleYi.Duringlate70sand...[
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Leadershipisobviouslyoverusedword.DuringinterviewswhenIwasaskedwhattheto-be-improved-skillis,IwillsayleadershipbecauseevenaCEOofafortune500companyisstillworkingonit.Ofcourse,IwillfollowuptalkingaboutanexampleinworkshowingthatIdohavesomeofit.
Manypeopleviewthemselvesasbornleaders.Thatreflectstheleadershipdesire.
Manypeoplestepupatcrisisandtrytosaveorhelptheresttofindthebettersolutionvs.just...[
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Asamarketingprofessional,significantpartofmyperformanceandachievementarebuiltonhowwellIcancommunicatewithothers.Comparedtogeneralpublic,myskillsincommunicationiswellabovetheaverage.Comparedtomycolleaguesinmarketing,itisnotmyprominentstrength.Iknowwhattosaybutstilllearninghowtosay.EvenspeakinginChinese,mystorytellingtechniquescouldbeimproved.Recentcaseinhand.Weareaboutdoingamarketresearchtosolveani...[
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IhavetoadmitIamnotperfectlyhappyatthemoment.AndIamlookinghardanddeeptounderstandwhyandhowtochangeit.Recently,IhavebeenobsessedwithonlinenovelsparticularlythoselovestoriessetinthetimeofthousandsyearsagoinChina.Icraveformorelove.Maybeitisareflectionofmyconfusionaboutmeaningoflifeandwhatreallymakesmehappy.Peoplesaythatthetruehappinesscomesfrominside.Maybethatistrueingeneral.Forme,itistoughtofindtheha...[
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Weconsciouslyorsubconsciouslyexpressourselvesallthetime.Itcanbethroughhowwedressandcarryourselvesindailyactivities.Itcanbethroughourdecisionaboutwheretowork,whowemarryandwhatweeat.However,perceptionsfromotherscanbesofarawayfromtheimageswewanttoproject.Also,whatwemeantosaycanbesodifferentfromwhatweactuallyaresaying.Inaddition,sometimeswereallydon’tquitegetwhoweareandwhatwetryingtoexpresseither.Thi...[
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