学会适应
从事帆船运动的朋友说:“当一个人在大海中航行时,他当然不可能改变海面的风向,但他却可以通过不断调整船上的风帆,让自己一直向目的地驶去”
比尔·盖兹说过:“生活是公平的,你要去适应他”
如果山不过来,我们就过去
有位大师,潜心修炼了多年,终於练成了“移山大法”。有人向他请教,他说:“要移山其实很简单,如果山不过来,我们就过去”
人类可以通过改变自己的态度去改变自己的生活,这是属於每一代人的最伟大的发现。
The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes.
-- William James
所以,怎样移动富士山?
The Lighthouse Story
One night at sea Captain Horatio Hornblower awakens to find that a ship is in his sea-lane about 20 miles away and refuses to move. Horatio commands the other ship to move starboard, 20 degrees at once. The other ship refuses and tells Horatio that he should move his ship starboard, 20 degrees at once. Next, Horatio tries to pull rank and size on the other ship, stating that he’s a captain and that he’s on a large battle ship. The other ship replies, and it turns out it’s not actually a ship, but a lighthouse.
The take-away: There are lighthouse principles. You don’t break them. You only break yourself against them. Don’t break yourself against lighthouse principles.