Pangguanonly2014-07-07 19:54:30回复悄悄话
回复 'newarm' 的评论 : I am agree with you. 以純 even didn't think about 楊梅's feeling, and the hurt to her. Also she doesn't have right to make decision instead of 楊梅.
楊梅 adopted 歡歡, so 歡歡 supposed to call 楊梅 as Mom, and call 以純 as sister. Why call 以純 as Mom. It is strange to call a unmarried and 20 years old girl as Mom in China.
何以纯这个小姑娘,说的好听一点呢,是个不自尊自爱的孩子,说的难听点呢,是“贱”。她犯贱表现在:
1. 明知道秦晚来不爱她,却主动上人家的床。不要说是以容害的,这个还真是她自个儿的决定。
2. 怀了私生子,却不顾父母好言相劝,把父母的关心当驴肝肺,执意要生下来。如果我是她的父母,也要被她气死。
3. 叶向东明明也没有要她赔偿什么,却非要凑上去让人家上她两年多,这个绝对达到“贱”的定义。
4. 杨梅辛苦照顾她和欢欢五年多,缺抵不上她要当“圣女”的需要。把孩子还给以容,满足了自己当“圣女”的私心,却完全辜负了杨梅的心血。
看过去何以纯好可怜的样子,都是别人在欺负她,其实她是自食其果,自己种下的因,所以自己要咽下这个果。可怜之人必有可恨之处啊。如果她不开始自爱自尊,是不可能走出这种因果关系的。
楊梅 adopted 歡歡, so 歡歡 supposed to call 楊梅 as Mom, and call 以純 as sister. Why call 以純 as Mom. It is strange to call a unmarried and 20 years old girl as Mom in China.