在朋友家睡不好的时候，找了本书听。

Tuesdays with Morrie  by Mitch Albom 

"Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live."

"Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them too - even when you are in the dark. Even when you are falling."

"There is no experience like having children...If you want the experience of having complete responsibility for another human being, and to learn to love and bond in the deepest way, then you should have children."

“If you hold back on the emotions--if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them--you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid."

"Detachement doesn't mean you don't let the experience penetrate you. On the contrary, you let it penetrate you fully. That's how you are able to leave it."

"Maybe death is the great equalizer, the one big thing that can finally make strangers shed a tear for one another."

 

这本书篇幅不长，二十多年前就发行了，还拍了电影。可我才知道它的存在。

Morrie的病和二涛的丈夫是一样的。