疯老大 - 博客

(2007-08-03 07:24:31)

来源:crazydog于05-12-3113:33:03
Onecannotbeagoodonewithoutanunderstandingofchildpsychologicaldevelopment.Infantshaveintrinsicrythsmsastowhentoeatandsleep.Ittakesanintelligentparenttouncoverit,nottotraintheinfanttoyourownscheduleandruinherintrinsicpattern.Thefactthatshecriedsomuchsuggestthatyouareignoringherownpattern.Holdingbabyisnecessaryforthementalhealthaswellasphysicaldevelopmentofthebaby....[阅读全文]

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辅食问题

(2007-08-03 07:18:30)

来源:crazydog于05-12-1615:06:54
Thelatestadvicebypediatriciansistostartsolidfoodfrom6monthsoldANDifyourbabyisready.Noneedtodoittooearlyanddon'tforceit.Justrelax.Yourbabywillguideyou.
Regardingcereal,startingitfirstisbecausemostbabiesarenotallergictoit,notbecauseithasanynutritionvalue.Actuallyotherthanthefortifiedironitcontains,itdoesnothavemuchnutritionvalues.Manybabiesdonotlikeit,mineincl...[阅读全文]

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老大关于孩子跟奶奶亲的回答

(2007-08-03 07:15:43)

来源:cilian于05-12-1514:11:30
儿子一岁多了，婆婆刚来。也帮着看儿子，但总是教他如何亲奶奶。从不叫他叫妈妈。整天爸爸，爷爷的叫，我心里有疙瘩。现在，她一说亲奶奶，儿子会马上扑过去。我说到妈妈这来，儿子会哭，我真不明白。自己一把屎一把尿带大的儿子竟不认我。除了喂奶，儿子跟我的关系看起来不如这个刚来的奶奶好，我很痛苦。奶奶想着法要让我断奶，也[阅读全文]

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Parental playground behaviour

(2007-08-03 07:05:40)

来源:crazydog于07-08-0211:58:45
Whenkidsaresmall(2),letthemhaveachancetobeindependentandsortouttheirownissues.Teachthebasicselfdefenseskill,likesaying"No,Stop!"loudly.Butotherwiseletkidsdealwitheachother.Thisisarealworldwithallsortsofpeople.Kidsneedachancetogrowup.Oneexception:ifthereisamuchyoungerkidaround,thenIstopmineifsheisnotcarefulwiththeyoungerkid.Witholderkids,Iletherdefendhe...[阅读全文]

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宝宝初上daycare

(2007-08-02 06:52:15)

Kidswillgetthrougheventually,butparentsfeelmuchworse.
SeveralthingsIlearntfromourpreschool:
1.TalktoRuruaboutroutinesindaycare.Tellhertheprogramsofthedayintheorderofhappening(likeplaying,snacks,outsidetime,lunch,nap,thenparentscoming)sothatsheknowswhattoexpect.Alsotellherthingsthatsheisexpectedtodobyherself:eating?drinkingfromwhattypeofglass/bottle?herownblanketandlovy,howtheychangediapers...[阅读全文]

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老大带“小老大”回国经验分享

(2007-07-28 14:28:40)

Ijustcamebackfroma3-weektriptoChinawithmy18-monthold.Ihadthesameworryasyoubecausemybabyisonallorganicfood/milkhere,andthereisnosuchthingasorganicinAsia.Inaddition,Iworryaboutallthefoodsafetyissues.However,justthink,yourbabywillonlybelivingonthosefoodforafewweeks--itisnotgoingtodotoomuchharm.Thisiswhatyoucando:
1)Bringsomeroom-temppackagedmilk---Horizonbrandhavesmallpapercontainerorganicmilk(24...[阅读全文]

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疯老大sleeping training Cry-it-out 方法的经历

(2007-07-20 09:30:57)

Ipersonallyknowplentyofbabyfailingthistypeofcry-it-outmethod,especiallyifthebabyisover1yearold.Somebabieswillcryallnight,literally!
Itriedthismethodonminewhenshewas7-monthold.Itworkedafter4nights.However,theoldpatterncamebackinamonthandlaterafteranysmalldisturbanceinherlife-teething,catchingacold,traveling,changingroom,etc,younameit.Youhavetocry-it-outagainandagain.
WhenIwaytryingitanoth...[阅读全文]

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Crazydog 简介

(2007-07-20 08:38:40)

Crazydog,美国知名学府的终身教授,一个可爱小女孩的妈妈,亲亲宝贝论坛很多妈妈的偶像.
她的帖子透着她富有张力的个性,丰富的学识,独特的见解，让读者如沐春风,所以大家都尊称她为疯老大.
Crazydog为人低调,很少见她发主贴,可非常热心,大部分时间是默默无闻的回答亲亲宝贝妈妈们的问题.我们大部分都是在北美刚刚当上妈妈,我们有很多独特的问题是在中国和北美当地的[阅读全文]

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