At74,Mr.Zhaoshowednosignofslowingdown.Heatelotsofrefined
carbs,though,andputonfat.Overthesummer,however,helost10
poundslaboringonhisfarm.Hecalledmyone-meal-a-dayroutine
"hunger-therapy"andcrediteditwiththeweight-loss."Idon'tfeel
hungryorthirstywhenIworkinthefield"heenthused.
Andthereliestheproblem.TheZhao'sstayinoneroominthehouseand
dadtakestheoth...[
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Dadcouldnolongermovewell.Ashespentmostofhisdaysittingor
lying,muscleatrophy,especiallyofthehipsandaroundthecore,made
simpleactivitiessuchasgettingupfrombedpainfullyslow.Hecould
notsquatdeepandrisewithoutholdingontosomething.Itwas
horrifyingtoseeandremindedmeofMaxwell'sstatementthatgetting
upfromthefloorwascriticalfortheold.
InJuly,hewashospitalizedforthreeweeksforvarious...[
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Thewitchthatcame(thewitheredhag)
Towashthestepswithpailandrag,
WasoncethebeautyAbishag,
ThepictureprideofHollywood.
Toomanyfallfromgreatandgood
Foryoutodoubtthelikelihood.
Dieearlyandavoidthefate.
Orifpredestinedtodielate,
Makeupyourmindtodieinstate.
Makethewholestockexchangeyourown!
Ifneedbeoccupyathrone,
Wherenobodycancallyoucrone.
Somehavereliedonwhat...[
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Hissparselongwhitehair,baldscalp,andbentbackmadeJlookmuch
olderthanhewas.Atabout5'6",heweighedlessthan130lbs.His
spindlylegsandarmsmatchedameasuredgaitgivingtheimpressionofa
wanderingmemberofaseniorcarefacility.Underthewhitebushybrows,
however,wereapairoflivelyandpenetratingeyesabovea
Pinocchio-stylepointynoseandthinlips,allproratawiththetiny
roundface.Undertheover...[
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OntheFridayflightleavingLAX,Ichattedwiththetallgentleman
sittingnexttome.Rightbehindthefirst,business,orotherwise
superiorclass,wehadgoodlegroomandtheconversationstartedthere.
Hemustbeinhislate60sandhadarednoseandruddyfaceunder
afullheadofhair.Heworekhakis,darkTshirt,andplainloafers.
HewasjustbackfromasecondvacationinHawaiithisyearand
consideringmovingthere.UponknowingIhadne...[
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ItwaschillyanddrizllingwhenIpulledoutofthebackalleylaneand
washeadedtothecity.DarkcloudshanglowontheearlySunday
morningsky.Trafficwaslightandittooklessthanfivemintocrossthe
rivervalleyandarriveattheoldhotel'sconcretegarageembeddedin
thebluffonthenorthside.Theywereofferingfreeparkingforthe
annualmarathon.
1.BackToWhereItAllStarted
Twodaysago,Icamebackforthefirstti...[
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ThenextMondayafterAgiletraining,IjoinedLandthreeothers
includinganIndian,aThai,andanative(borninUS),atlunch.The
subjectcameupnaturallyanditturnedoutthatImissedorsimply
forgotoneimportantlesson.Tothequestion"Howdoweworkwith
colleaguesacrosstimezonesunderAgile",Bobrepliedwithavehement
"Don't!"andspentthenexthalfhourbashingtheFollow-The-Sunidea.
Sitting...[
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Itwasearly1980sandtheReformandOpen-Uppolicyjustgotintogear.
Barely70kmssouthofthecapitalcity,myhometownwasbroughtupto
speed.Newgroundswerebeingbroken,buildingserected,dirtpathsleveled
andpavedwithtarandgravel.Morecarsandtrucksappearedontheroads.
Aking-sizedfour-laneunderpass,somethingonlyseeninbigcities,wasto
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Readingthebookwherethesongwasreferenced,Iwasfamiliarwiththetunebutnotlyrics.Socopiedithere.Oh,Dannyboy,thepipes,thepipesarecalling
Fromglentoglen,anddownthemountainside.
Thesummer'sgone,andalltherosesfalling,
It'syou,it'syoumustgoandImustbide.Butcomeyebackwhensummer'sinthemeadow,
Orwhenthevalley'shushedandwhitewithsnow,
It'sI'llbehereinsunshineorinsh...[
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Overtheyears,IwasexposedtotheAgilesoftware
developmentmodelafewtimesbutneverhadachanceto
divein.Lastweek,HQengineerstrainedtwodaysofa
particularflavorofAgileandIenjoyedthemostpart.
Thelecturer,Bob,flewinfromPhiladelphia.Awhitemale
inhislate50s,hehadasix-feet-twoframe,aslightly
protrudingbelly,aruddyface,recedingauburnhair,and
sharpblueeyes.
Anaturalspeakeroratleastloo...[
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