
老二秋季要去上大学了,我们也就成了空巢“老人了。老二更宝贝些。学车晚,也没打过什么工。一想到她自己要离家独立生活,我就担心。担心她照顾不好自己,毕不了业。最后决定把担心变动力,帮助她暑假速成。刚开始想去医院做义工,可人家申请早结束了。就先送去Kumon当小老师。每次回来,她都眉飞色舞的讲她遇到的孩子,讲她如何搞定不想完成作业的小孩子。[
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Iwasusedtobetheparentfigurewhotoldwhatkidsdoordon'tdo.Iamcomfortablewiththefeelingofowningthem.Theybelongtomyfamilyandtheyaremine.Noonehascloserrealtionshipthanwhat'sbetweenusandthem.However,Istartedtohaveuneasyfeelingthatourrelationshipwithmykidsischanging.Theyaregrowingup,theyarebecomingmoreindependent,andtheyaremorecapabletoexperienceontheirownandImightnotbethemostinfluentialoneanymore....[
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Ineverthoughtaboutnewyearresolutionsbefore.Guessididn'tneedthemordidn'tknowwhatnewyearresolutionmeant.Thisyear,somehow,Ihavetheurgetolistthem.Maybe,theyarenotexactlyresolutionsbutsimplyafewthingsIfeelIneedtoremindmyself,listofafew"do"and"don'tdo"s.Heretheyare.1.Letyoungermakeplanherself.Shewilllearnfromherownexperience.Icannotholdherhandsallthetime.2.Makegoodplanbut...[
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二宝主意大。从大学申请一开始,就很有目标。她有自己的心仪学校,认为自己很符合学校文化,也和负责大学申请的老师谈过,觉得进去的可能性很大。学校有EA和ED两种选择,她毫不犹豫的选了ED.这和姐姐不一样,姐姐没有非常喜欢的学校,希望多些选择,所以坚决不选ED.二宝满怀热情,信心和希望的一遍遍的完善学校申请短文的写作。无论是短文的风格,自我的展现和对[
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今天吃螃蟹,我家二宝问:这些都是女螃蟹吗?我们开始笑。她接着说:不是girl螃蟹,难道是woman螃蟹?[
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HistoryhasseenapowerfulwaveofBLMcrusadingforblackbeingtreatedequallybypolicewhichquicklyevolvedtoblackbeingtreatedequallyinsociety.[
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2020yearisastrangestyearever.EarlyJanuary,Istartedtohearfrommymedicalschoolclassmategroupaboutthismysteriousvirus.Ispentfareamountoftimetolearnwhatishappeningandwhatitmeanstoourdailylife.IhadabusinesstripplannedtovisitacoupleofAsiacountriesinearlyFeb.Aftersomeseriousthoughts,idecidedtocancelit.Goodthingisthatmybosssupported.Shedidn'tthinkitworthstheriskandsuggesteddelayingit.Allthehotels,airti...[
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好几年没在感恩节购物了。今年感恩节前被微信群里的年轻美妈们狂种草(这网络词也是群里新学的)。到感恩节的时候,一通买买买。。先网购。。后逛店,鞋子,裙子,香水。。[
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吃完晚饭,出去遛弯。俩人开始认真讨论养狗的事情。最后基本达成一致意见,要养中等或者大一些的狗。德牧是个不错的选择。先生问:真要养狗?我说:是啊。遛狗比遛你有意思。先生说:不会吧。我又不用你跟在后边捡屎蛋。[
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夏末的清晨,凉风习习,天空湛蓝,十分宜人。先生继续每日的习惯:早起浇花看花。今天又有项新活动,把修剪的支条插支育苗。我在旁边陪着他走来走去,他插支,我也在一旁看。他做的有滋有味,我却渐觉无聊。刚要起身离开,先生非常关爱的样子,说了一句:看累了?然后俩人会心的开怀大乐[
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