understand, understood 区别

Let's get the strength to love. Better to have Loved & lost than Never to have Loved at all. People won't Care what You Know, until They Know that You Care. Seek 1st to underSTAND, then to be underSTOOD. You+Me=We. Character=All Thoughts & Feelings.

7 Habits of Highly Effective People ：#5 Seek first to understand, then to be understood.
Seek understand before being understood.