众里寻它千百度，

是她，他，还是它，重要么？

https://www.npr.org/2015/02/27/389489102/through-the-looking-glass

昨天在车里听了这段广播，上网找出来再看看。感触很深。。

“Congo really set the standard for what social interactions should be like between me and another living being. You just can't worry about looking like a fool. You can't worry about getting hurt. You can't worry about whether you're right or not. It just boils down to wanting to be connected at all costs, at all risks. I no longer wanted to allow the permeability of my spirit to seek smaller and smaller shelters. It requires a completely open heart. I felt like I found a way to go home through the glass.”

完全敞开的心。。。很多toddle 会，对父母，对那些给予他们爱护的。。

多少人在成长中学了seek smaller and smaller shelters。。。

成人们还有那种wanting to be connected at all costs, at all risks? 那要多大的勇气和自信？