我是怎么好的: 人工流產後遗症

人工流產後遗症愈合是不容易。参与我们的孩子死亡的非常行为,违背了大自然的一切呼召. 我们是母亲和父亲。生命的养育者和保护者创建。人工流产的行为,违背了大自然肩负对未出生的孩子的生命。

我们可以自己争取来证明我们有流产的原因，但事实是，没有什么能赎罪对未出生的孩子的生命死亡的非常行为，除了接受和相信耶稣基督宽恕的爱的真相。

我总是告诉那些来我们的“Entering Canan”人工流產後遗症愈合conference，即愈合不是一个一步到位的过程。很多时候，一个流产后的女人会hope for 速战速决，瞬间愈合，但愈合是在神的时间，不是我们的。有时候，你甚至会觉得你是在倒退，但如果你坚持下去，并保持你的眼睛在基督 - 医治会发生。

我记得特别是一个多次流产的女人。当她来到我们“Entering Canan”, 她是完全绝望。上帝怎么能原谅她吗？她相信她是最坏的最坏的女人。没有人强迫她放弃，她自由地选择结束她的怀孕。在她的愈合进步中,每个进步之后, 有绝望的较量，谴责的声音又开始指责她, 告诉她不可原谅。她常常感觉就像进两步退十步。现在，四年后，她是一个了不起的speaker, 并帮助其他许多女性的疗愈之旅。

我常常感到忧虑，当我听到人们谈论那些流产后女性，他们将永远无法再次感受到和平与??快乐. 活中，仿佛神的怜悯有一个限度。当然，有些人可能永远不会再感到平安和喜乐，但不是因为它是不可能的，那是因为他们坚持，而不是执着于自己怜悯自己。

了解生活与流产第一手experience的恐怖，绝望，内疚，羞愧，焦虑， （我可以继续下去） ，我也知道神的完全彻底的宽恕，并希望那些遭受流产后女性知道的完全彻底的宽恕的存在。你真的可以重新拥有快乐在你的生活。您不仅可以拥有它，神希望你拥有它！这就是为什么他死在十字架上，并且，你的流产的孩子你渴望它。

有些人担心，嘿，你有一个流产，去愈合，一切都会好起来。但是，这并不是事实。治疗其实要付出代价的。一段旅程，随着越来越多的流产后的人达到这个愈合，愈合从绝望，焦虑，内疚，羞愧和真正的自由，因为它不再是关于我们，越来越多的人will help to end abortion, not because of their war story, but because they have met Jesus Christ and He has transformed the evil of abortion, a sin so horrific, with His love and mercy. In the end, He the only one that can end abortion.

It is not easy to heal from abortion. The very act of participating in the death of our children goes against everything nature has called us to be as mothers and fathers. Nurturers and protectors of the life created. The act of abortion touches us to our very core.

We can live in denial for a time, fight within ourselves to justify and rationalize the reasons we had abortions, but the truth is, nothing can ever expiate the deep rooted truth of taking the life of our unborn children except accepting and believing in the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ.

I always tell those who come to us in our “Entering Canaan” ministry, that healing is not a one-step process. Many times, a post abortive woman will come looking for the quick fix, the instant healing, but healing is in God’s time, not ours. It is most often like an onion that heals by layers and of which the abortion itself is most often a culminating act of many other issues. There will be times you will even feel like you are going backwards, but if you persevere and keep your eyes on Christ - healing will happen.

I remember in particular a women who had multiple abortions. When she came to us she was in total despair. How could God ever forgive her? She believed she was the worst of the worst. No one forced her to abort, she freely chose to end her pregnancies, or so she thought. Each bit of progress in her healing would be followed by bouts of despair, as the voice of condemnation began accusing her again telling her forgiveness could never be hers. It often felt like two steps forward and ten steps backwards. She had to learn that healing was not about feelings, that she had to look at Him instead of herself and that in fact she was making great progress in spite of what she felt. Now, four years later, she is an amazing speaker giving talks at our retreats and helping many other women on their healing journey.

I often feel concern when I read articles or hear people speak about those post abortive as if they will never be able to feel peace and joy in their lives again, as if there is a limit to God’s mercy. Granted, some people may not ever again feel that peace and joy, but not because it is not possible, it is because they cling to themselves instead of clinging to Mercy Himself.

We can all tell our stories about our abortions, and there is definitely a time and place for that. With the help of God it can contribute to changing minds and hearts about abortion, and with His help, sway someone contemplating the act. Our stories can touch the hearts of politicians showing that it is not a good for women and they can also move the steadfast pro abort to recognize the pain it has caused to countless people. Our stories can also make those suffering not feel so alone, but our stories alone do not bring healing.

Post abortion healing is about bringing souls to Christ, souls lost to Him through abortion. Knowing firsthand the horrors of living with abortion, the despair, guilt, shame, anxiety, (I could go on and on), I also know the total and complete forgiveness of God, and want those suffering to know it is there for them as well. You truly can have joy in your life again. Not only can you have it, but God desires you to have it! That is exactly why He died on the cross, and, your aborted children desire it as well.

Some people fear that promoting that message will somehow make abortion seem ok to people. Hey, you have an abortion, go for healing and all will be well. But that is not truth. Healing is in fact, a crucifixion. There is a price to pay for sin. A deep suffering that calls you to the cross of Christ and death to yourself. A journey to humility, seeing yourself in the truth of Christ and trusting in His love enough that you know in your heart He died for you, not because of who you are or because you deserve it, but because of who He is. It is a death to your selfishness and self-will, a death to bad behaviors and a birth to a new life in Jesus Christ.

Healing from abortion is not about us and what we have done. It is about Jesus Christ and what He has done. It is about taking the focus off of us and placing it on Him. It is learning about post abortion through the light of His love for us so that we are sustained and able to carry our cross to Calvary. It is about trusting in His love enough to willingly allow ourselves to be crucified out of love, His love for us. It is about being willing to climb on the cross with Him, because we totally believe in His mercy, love, and forgiveness. It is about allowing that deep love to consume us and heal us, knowing when we reach healing, no one and nothing can take that from us ever again.

As more and more post abortive people reach this healing, a healing truly free from despair, anxiety, guilt, and shame, because it is no longer about us, more and more people who are suffering will say “I want what he/she has." They will then have the courage to travel to their own crucifixion. These souls, once joined with Christ, will help to end abortion, not because of their war story, but because they have met Jesus Christ and He has transformed the evil of abortion, a sin so horrific, with His love and mercy. In the end, He the only one that can end abortion.

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