如果这一刻死去，我毫无遗憾

那是一个阳关道灿烂的午后。一个朋友这样说。很多年以后，我终于体会到他那时的心情。
。。。。。。

我不再有期待。想要的，想得到的，不想要的，没想过的，都发生过了。我坐在沙发上看书。窗外下着小雨，很轻。房间里的灯光很温暖，我的心很安静。没有期待，没有梦想。如果这一刻就这样离世，我没有遗憾。

[huidaoyuandian]

My life is similar to yours. No husband, no children, and I am also not young anymore. But I have a good health and a self-supported living. I never wanted a life like this, and it is not acceptable by Chinese culture. But I have learned to enjoy it - a small independent life. I have a soul mate, even though it is not 100% real. I think, as a woman, as long as she is living a honest, self-reliant life, she should consider herself A LUCKY ONE. Her life should be celebrated, since she does not cause any damage to her surroundings. Cheer up! You are never alone.

[白菜花]

欣赏你的智慧和独立。当然凡事都有代价，家庭有家庭的代价，自由也有自由的代价。敢做敢当的都是好样的。

[风起]

每个人都是接受命运的安排吧，象你接受被离婚一样，很多有了孩子的女人就是选择被不离婚。生活很难一切按愿望，也许有些时候会顺风车，但是当一切想发生和不想发生的都发生了的时候，经历便称为一切的解释和理由。其实看破红尘还是难得糊涂，生活的车轮还是会继续下去，死而无憾也算是一种境界

[Empty_Chair]

保重，祝好。

[倚恩]

能够有这样的想法是好的，至少它证明你是个精神独立的人。现在太多的女人经济独立，灵魂不独立。