jgey的单身日记
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2:30am, I just had a phone call with Jeff, he was busy with his exams recently, we didnt get a chance to talk or meet for a long while, since I introduced Rina to him, which didnt work out, cos Jeff thinks Rina is not attractive enough, facially. LOL, its just a very polite way to say, --she is ugly. Jeff is a lawyer, he has very good skills on playing with words.
Jeff got some question, he is seeing a japanese girl recently, who is a buddhist, and who tells him that she cant have sex before getting married. Jeff knows nothing about Buddhism, then he asked for my opinion, well, I cant say I know well about Buddhism, but I think the theory of not having sex before marriage is kinda weird and clueless. Its like, if you buy a car, before you pay the money, you should get a test drive. Sex is one of the biggest factors to make a relationship work. Actually I had a very similar conversation with Dave about this issue today, I was joking with him and called him a professional test driver. I feel very comfortable to be with Dave, and our sex is great, but we are not dating, for God knows the reason. Anyway this situation doesnt bother me much, yet, does it? Nope, cos all I can think now is, why the hell LB didnt give the feedback yet?!!! It has been over 2 weeks, no Yes, no No, I am being hanged like a prisoner waiting for the final sentence, I have complained to all my friends about this matter, but it doesnt help much. After this job hunting done, I would go back to dating status, not particularly for relationships or bfs, but for romance and less confusion on how to define the relationship between the guy and me.
"Is it possible that we get so spoiled by choices that we become unable to make one? That part of us knows that, once you choose something, one man, one great apartment, one amazing job, then another option goes away..."
I cant agree more with that, this choice thing has been bothering me for so long, cos I am afraid of another option going away, I can hardly make a choice. I know I should stop watching this show, Sex and the city, again and again, but I just cant help, and everytime I watch it, I feel I have been through most issues they have been talking about. But its just a tv show, its not supposed to give any solution. The other day, Dave sent me an article, --"How to break out of a dating rut", I was wordless, kinda funny, if I really followed those relationship bible books, I should never see any guy like him again. Dave was trying to analyze me like a shrink, he said I actually wanted a serious relationship, well I never said that I didnt want one, then he said I never said I did want one... lol, so I should tell any guy I know that I want a serious relationship badly??? Am I crazy???
Well, serious relationship, the point is, how serious I want it to be. I get freaked out all the time by those serious guys with serious issues, serious, the word itself gives me a lot pressure, I have hard time to handle it. Anyway, this is not important now, I should focus on job hunting, I am really not in the mood for any kinda relationship.
Jeff got some question, he is seeing a japanese girl recently, who is a buddhist, and who tells him that she cant have sex before getting married. Jeff knows nothing about Buddhism, then he asked for my opinion, well, I cant say I know well about Buddhism, but I think the theory of not having sex before marriage is kinda weird and clueless. Its like, if you buy a car, before you pay the money, you should get a test drive. Sex is one of the biggest factors to make a relationship work. Actually I had a very similar conversation with Dave about this issue today, I was joking with him and called him a professional test driver. I feel very comfortable to be with Dave, and our sex is great, but we are not dating, for God knows the reason. Anyway this situation doesnt bother me much, yet, does it? Nope, cos all I can think now is, why the hell LB didnt give the feedback yet?!!! It has been over 2 weeks, no Yes, no No, I am being hanged like a prisoner waiting for the final sentence, I have complained to all my friends about this matter, but it doesnt help much. After this job hunting done, I would go back to dating status, not particularly for relationships or bfs, but for romance and less confusion on how to define the relationship between the guy and me.
"Is it possible that we get so spoiled by choices that we become unable to make one? That part of us knows that, once you choose something, one man, one great apartment, one amazing job, then another option goes away..."
I cant agree more with that, this choice thing has been bothering me for so long, cos I am afraid of another option going away, I can hardly make a choice. I know I should stop watching this show, Sex and the city, again and again, but I just cant help, and everytime I watch it, I feel I have been through most issues they have been talking about. But its just a tv show, its not supposed to give any solution. The other day, Dave sent me an article, --"How to break out of a dating rut", I was wordless, kinda funny, if I really followed those relationship bible books, I should never see any guy like him again. Dave was trying to analyze me like a shrink, he said I actually wanted a serious relationship, well I never said that I didnt want one, then he said I never said I did want one... lol, so I should tell any guy I know that I want a serious relationship badly??? Am I crazy???
Well, serious relationship, the point is, how serious I want it to be. I get freaked out all the time by those serious guys with serious issues, serious, the word itself gives me a lot pressure, I have hard time to handle it. Anyway, this is not important now, I should focus on job hunting, I am really not in the mood for any kinda relationship.
还好，有空一起吃饭。
To elpher:
要多找几家，recruiter是靠candidates赚钱的，如果觉得recruiter态度不够积极，就换人，他们应该是为你服务的。
我回东京了，忽然不忙了。没事可做了。。。