jgey的单身日记
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头晕, 昨晚又玩疯了, 精神不老, 肉体老, 现在的年纪一夜又一夜的, 实在敖不住.
昨天中午和另一个RECRUITER一起吃午饭, 话不投机, 气氛很尴尬. 觉得还是之前那家规模大一点的RECRUITING公司更好一些, 可以选择的余地更大. 这个RECRUITER是日本人, 非常典型的日本人, 说话总喜欢说一半, 后一半我必须自己猜, 害得我午饭都没吃好. 他请我吃了午饭, 又请我喝咖啡, 最后还是谈不出什么结果, 让我觉得有些过意不去.
晚上和DAVID一起吃晚饭, DAVID, 33岁, 加拿大人, 我大概3年前认识DAVID, 那时候他还是已婚男人, 太太是日本人, 前几天偶然聊天, 他说去年终于离婚, 听口气有点"终于解放了"的意思. 32岁对男人来说好象是一个台阶, 最近听说很多人离婚, 都是32岁, 例如MARIO??? DAVID也是做RECRUITING的, 但和IT无关, 是广告和MARKETING的RECRUITING, 他经常要我帮他介绍CANDIDATES, 答应给我丰厚的提成, 我一笑置之. DAVID原本就是PARTY ANIMAL, 曾经在六本木"夜夜笙歌", 六本木有一家出名的CLUB叫做911, 他是那里的VIP. 现在离婚了, 应该可以更加尽情的PARTY了, 但听DAVID讲, 他的心态变了, 不再喜欢那些"CRAZY PARTIES OR CLUBBING", 开始去一些西麻布地区的比较安静的高级LOUNGE, 只为了轻松的喝一杯. 我完全理解他的心情, 我现在对那些CHEESY HIPHOP CLUBS也慢慢失去兴趣, used to like clubbing in that kinda places a lot, crowded, lots of young cute guys, cheap drinks and great dancing music...Now would prefer to more quiet and stylish places, just for some good drinks and enjoying conversation with interesting people. 人在不同的年纪喜欢不同的东西, 自然规律.
晚饭很愉快, DAVID非常健谈, he is not a very good-looking guy, typical jewish look, but very very funny, and sweet. Well, There are lots of different types of sweetness, Mario is a sweet guy too, but he is kinda laid back, usually he just smiles and wouldnt say anything in person, but later might send messages to say that he loves my lips, loves my legs...kinda cool sweet. David's sweetness is much more straight forward, makes me feel very flattered, well, women would never get enough with compliments, more is always better.
吃过晚饭, 决定一起去喝一杯. CLUB 911前一阵一直在装修, 最近终于重新OPEN, 听DAVID说, 911开始走高级LOUNGE的路线, 我很想去CHECK OUT, 于是决定先去CLUB 911. 果然和以前的气氛大不一样, CLUB 911 used to be a very crowded place, and kinda cheesy, but a lot fun. 现在放了很多舒服的沙发, 没有什么SPACE FOR DANCING, 装修的风格很STYLISH, 但我还是觉得过去的感觉比较好, 更多乐趣, DAVID也有同感. STAFFS都认识DAVID, 我们坐下来, 一边喝酒一边聊天, David started his voice of experience speaking, "Dont get married in ur 20s, just go have fun. Today the world is totally different from the old days, people have more options, and women dont really need the guarantee offered by marriage..." This reminded me of the movie, Little Miss Sunshine, in that movie, the grandpa talking to his grandson in this way, "Listen, kid, this is the voice of experiences speaking, fuck a lot of women, not just one woman, but a lot..." Hilarious.
David has quite bad experiences in his marriage, he told me the frequency of the sex life with his wife from per day, per week, to per month, at the 6th year of their marriage, only 5 times for the whole year...LOL, poor guy. And his friend, an australian guy, kinda in the same situation, now talking with his wife about divorce too. David said, "no matter how much you love each other, after certain years living together, you would get bored, would totally lose the interests, then everything just becoming cold and unacceptable..." Well, I assume that marriage is not just about sex, but honestly, what David said kinda makes sense too, who knows how long the love to the particular one could last, then the question again, is marriage really necessary?
我们喝得兴致很好, 说到怎样判断一个人是否good kisser, 我说, 据说可以用舌头把樱桃柄打结的人是GOOD KISSER, DAVID说不可能, 于是我们决定试试看, 叫来WAITER问"what kinda drink comes with cherry", waiter是个黑人小哥, 日语完全不通, 英语也不灵光, 我们解释了半天, 说只要"cherry with stem", waiter似懂非懂的去了吧台. 回来的时候, 黑人小哥端了一个小盘子, 上面有2个被COCKTAIL用的塑料STICK穿着的CHERRY, 我们笑得说不出话来, 这个不是CHERRY WITH STEM, 而是CHERRY WITH STICK, 估计没有人能用舌头把这个打结的. WAITER看我们笑, 似乎很满意, 又跑去吧台, 给我们端来一盘草莓. 在CLUB 911喝得开心, 随后又去了一家ROCK BAR, 结果是, 我今天下午头仍旧很晕.
刚刚周二, 还有漫长的一周, its not quite a good idea to drink on monday nite...
