爹妈探子

爹妈探子

到儿子们住的地方附近去玩，再去看看儿子们。他们要工作，没法跟着我们玩，再说大了他们想玩自己玩去就是了不用来陪我们。

临走前问儿子们要带什么。儿子说。。。

想吃家里的饺子。。

于是赶紧去华人超市买了白菜蘑菇还有蘸饺子的汁。

大老远地去了到他们住的新盖的公寓一看，还不小也合用，是典型的理工男大学生宿舍的样子，乱糟糟的堆了电脑和电子器件和做模型飞机的东西。哎，还是孩子。。

剁白菜剁蘑菇剁葱剁蒜;
揉面擀面包饺子煮饺子;
吃饺子收饺子洗锅洗碗。。。

做了很多他们收起来还能吃几天。

仔细看看儿子们，似乎又长高了，也强壮了。把小儿子的手抓住握了握，干了一个月体力活，手掌变厚了，脸色也好，胳膊上贴了个创可贴，说是在超市烤蛋糕不小心烫的。。

跟大儿子交代两件事，一个是别把当预备兵只是做一个挣点小钱的半时工，而是当做一个可以终生受益的锻炼的机会。一个是去集训，比较苦，都是年轻人，容易发生些浪漫的事，这本身并没什么不好，但是自己要当心，因为去当兵的下层人家比较多，教养和家庭观念和我们有很大的不同，只是在这个特殊环境下容易搞到一起。看人要看本质能有长期的稳定家庭关系的。如果能找到这样的当然更好我也希望你能尽早碰上。还有集训完了并不是终点以后回来工作之余继续按这条路一级一级地升。

最后拍了一下他的肩膀，说我等着那一天我会来给你肩上戴上军官军阶。这是军队的传统也是做父母的特权。。

吃完饭我们去住酒店，儿子把我们车上妈妈自己设计缝的汽车皮椅子套打土豪扒走了装自己新车上了。。我们回去再做一个就是了。。

[菲儿天地]

赞好文。

[Jingle-Bell]

时不时来你家看看，学很多教育孩子的观点。感谢波大分享！

[elfie]

Not many people are having romance during Basic training. It's too busy to do all that. And if someone actually have sex, they would be dismissed. Men and women are separated in different barracks so if things like that happens, it's a big disciplinary problem. When I was at basic training about 20 years ago, one guy snuck into the women's barracks and had sex with a girl. I don't know how he managed to do that because we were very busy all day and there were usually many people in one room. His nickname is Special K and he was especially naughty. Of course he was disciplined. Also, you're a bit too condescending to the others. There's no upper class in the Army, everyone is treated the same as new recruits and as soldiers. I can only shake my head how you misunderstand the U.S military. Your family background and your college degrees mean nothing in the military. It's all about being tough physically and mentally. The Army doesn't care how well you are raised, and it doesn't give you an edge. You have to work very hard to prove yourself from the very first day till the last.