我的梦 (My Dream)

Have you read the book "Anna Karenina ", which is a world class famous novel written by a Russian writer Mr. Tolstoy?   On the front page of this novel, he wrote down:  "All the happy families are the same, while each of the unhappy families has their own reason."  I extended the interpretation to: "All the married man and woman are the same, like positive and negative particles bounded to each other; while all the unbounded particles are somewhat irregular or unique." They might be strong, weak, smart, sensitive, talented, good looking, not good looking, special family background, special life experience....  whatever, there needs a word "over" in front of it.  This "over" make them irregular or unique.  Positive or negative, "good" or "bad", fortunate or sad, all because the "OVER".  
A western wise man said: “Life just like hiking, from many trails, you pick up one and keep going.”  
An eastern wise man said: “There wasn’t any road originally; as many people step over, it became road.” 
I am one of the irregular particles, have passed the thorns and storms, choosing and making my own road. 
Logic and art are the gods governing my mind.  The artistic dream is so sweet,and the logic is paving the road to success. 

I was born in China, survived from the Cultural Revolution, picked myself up, went through all the education in Beijing and California, Berkeley, became a successful engineer and small business entrepreneur.  

Kevin came to my life as a gift. For the strong physical, intellectual and emotional attraction between us, for the open mind of creative life style, for truly enjoy the meaning of life, I wrote this poem for his birthday. (TO KEVIN).

I believe Love & Intelligence will make life forever creative and fulfilled. 

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你读过苏联作家托尔斯泰的世界名著安娜卡列尼娜吗? 他在书的扉页上写道:“所有幸福的家庭都是一样的，而不幸的家庭却各有各的不幸”。 我把它的意思延伸为 “所有结婚的男人和 女 人都是一样的，像正，负离子绑在一起。而自由的粒子 多少有些不正常或者特殊”。 他们可能强，弱，聪明，敏感，有智慧，漂亮，难看，特出的家庭背景，不一般的生活经验，等等。无论如何，在这些字前面需要加一个词“过份”。 这个“过份”把他们变得不正常，或者特殊。正面的，反面的，好的，坏的，幸运的，倒霉的，全都来自于这个“过份”。

一位西方的智者说过：“生活就像旅行，你选择一条道路，然后走下去 ” 。 
一位东方的智者说过：“世上本没有路，走的人多了也便成了路”。我就是这样一个不正常的粒子，在荆棘遍野和狂风暴雨中选择和开辟自己的道路。 逻辑和艺术是主宰我心灵的上帝。  艺术的梦是那么的美，  而逻辑铺平了通往成功的路。我出生在中国， 从文化革命中活了过来， 重新站起来， 在北京和加州伯克莱完成了我的学业， 成为了一个成功的工程师和小小创业者。凯文在我生活中的出现是一个礼物。 为了我们之间理智上，感情上，身心上，强烈地相互吸引，为了坦荡的胸怀和创造性的生活方式，我写下这首诗 (TO KEVIN) ，作为给他的生日礼物。我相信爱情和智慧将使生活永远充实和充满活力。