五绝 忌日念娘

 



五绝 忌日念娘

失娘今二载，

无尽泪沾襟。

但愿时回转，

容儿奉孝心。

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母亲，昨晚写了和您心灵对话的短文，但愿您能听见。

今早在火车上构思，
现在速吟一首短诗
以表达女儿的无限思念和心愿。

寄上几朵花园里的玫瑰等，愿您也能得到这大自然美的享受。

 





 仙姝下凡？这是我们花园里的玫瑰。

一朵鲜花就要盛开

这是从后花园摘来的蔷薇。



目前我们的前花园是百花齐放（爸爸说的），以上的花和这朵玫瑰／月季也是在前花园里的。




爸爸让我拍的，四朵花同时盛开，此玫瑰的英文名为：Inappreciation, new rose for 2004, bred by Rosen Tantao Germany.  整个花园目前都是爸爸在照顾。


爸叫它塑料花（很象），我不知其名，属爬藤的类型，很特别及好看，还能吸引到蜜蜂！







这是前院草地里的野草，正好有一束粉色的花从树上(Crepe Myrtle) 落下来，搭配起来蛮好看的。


树(Crepe Myrtle)上的粉色的花


Golden Iris? (Mum, I wish that you would be here with us to enjoy this beautiful garden)

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• 伊梅姐对母亲的思念之情，让人感动，，，，同悲，，，，，， -元梁- ♂ (0 bytes) (4 reads) 3/1/11

   • 感谢！还记得你的那首歌颂母亲的诗。 -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

• 节哀. -榔头- (0 bytes) (4 reads) 3/1/11

   • 感谢！ -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

• 回复：五绝 忌日念娘 -娘们儿- ♀ (273 bytes) (26 reads) 3/1/11

    • 感谢！ -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (1 reads) 3/2/11

• 滴滴女儿心，循循感念深。鲜花三两朵，春雨共沾襟。 -nuts000- (35 bytes) (9 reads) 3/1/11

   • 谢谢核班，总是那么有心，诗意连连。 -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

• 与伊梅儿同思同念同痛同悼！抱抱伊梅儿 -英华- ♀ (289 bytes) (8 reads) 3/1/11

   • 谢谢英华的理解和鼓励，我尽力去做，拥抱。 -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

• 节哀。 您可以对着/哼咏歌词【妈妈的牵手】听歌，可能心情会好一些。 -ee888- ♂ (2353 bytes) (5 reads) 3/1/11

    • 好听，很感动，非常感谢你！ -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (1 reads) 3/2/11

• 共剪新绦半绿黄, 浠嘘垂首忆高堂, 魂梦依依长亭外, 寄梅香.. 吹去如绵千点泪 -梦江南_- ♀ (4413 bytes) (6 reads) 3/1/11

   • 谢谢豆豆深情好词，越来越觉得＂词＂比＂诗＂更能表达感情。 -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

• 花容滴亮露，似懂女儿心。粉面颗颗泪，相与祭母亲。 -愚训- ♂ (401 bytes) (7 reads) 3/1/11

    • 感谢这位朋友的好诗，真正表达了意境和心愿。 -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

• 冰消寒已尽，万物始回春。今又逢三月，同君念母亲。 -xl太阳- ♂ (0 bytes) (4 reads) 3/1/11

    • 谢谢好心善良的太阳，给了我不少的安慰！ -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

• 抱抱一梅。。。。 -雨清- ♀ (0 bytes) (2 reads) 3/2/11

   • 谢谢雨清，拥抱。 -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

• 在今天这个痛苦的日子尤其感受到有你们这些朋友们真好，谢谢大家！ -yimei1926- ♀ (0 bytes) (0 reads) 3/2/11

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A good friend who emailed the poem and said "I wish the following poem will help you get relief"
and I did.

Sleep Mommy

© Kimberli A. Hardiman

Sweet smile on your face as you sleep the pain away,
Resting in God's arms now, although in the ground your body lay.
He needed another angel in the Heavenly choir and that's why you had to go.
As you promised, you are still with us watching your children here below.

I never would have imagined the end would be like this, me comforting you.
Holding your hand, telling you not to worry was not an easy thing for me to do.
And even in your weakest hour you tried to comfort me too,
Caressing my face, and calming my soul as only a mother can soothe.

You have always been there through the thick and the thin
No matter what I've done, unconditionally you love never wavering.
When I told you of the mistakes I made and all the times people saw me fall
You simply nodded and gently replied 'so have we all'.
The key to success is learning from the past
Ensuring a brighter future is now the present task.

A pillar of strength even until the end
Fighting all life's battles, knowing it's triumphantly you would win
Pushing me to be the best that you know I can be
Reminding me to keep the faith and allow God to lead me.
Knowing it's through Christ that I can do all things
And as He never makes a mistake I will come through victoriously.

I miss you more than these words could ever say
The pain in my heart is from one unimaginable day
After I cried all that I could; my eyes still shed countless more tears
And when I try to sleep, I have nightmares of ten-thousand fears
I walk in footsteps on an unsure path
My load feels so heavy I am not sure I will last.

Silly though I may be I am afraid of life now that you're gone
Because I've always had a mother.
And Mommy, what about my sister and baby brother.
I wish you could have stayed just a little while longer, there's so much left to do
I wonder if I prayed hard enough and if so, did they get through.

Finding relief in knowing I will see you again someday soon
Remembering all you taught me as my soul I continue to groom
I will walk in footsteps you have walked before me
Seeing the path you walked lead you, Mommy, straight into victory.

So as you sleep Mommy, in the cradle of the Lord,
I am reassured of God's promises in His Holy Word.
I dream of the day when Heaven's gates open to receive me
And with your smiling face and loving eyes, reunited once again I will be.

(Source来源: Sleep Mommy, Mother Death Poems http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/death/poetry.asp?poem=658#ixzz1FRZpi1Ol)

[yimei1926]

回复山菊花的评论:

Thanks a lot. Take care!

[山菊花]

亲缘绝何早，一岁一沾巾。感受你的痛，同为失母人。

一梅节哀！

最近忙S，很少进城，多谢惦念：）

[yimei1926]

回复焕华的评论:

谢谢汉字先生的好诗及祝福。

说得对，我正努力，争取也做个好母亲。

[焕华]

忆亲泪满池，
梅花傲寒痴。
孝心感众友，
母爱侬更知。

最后一句我想表达的意思是：母亲爱你，你知道的。也意：母爱 的内涵你更知道，因为你自己也是孩子的母亲。
说明：我真的不会诗。也许您指教指教呵！
祝福您和家人。

[yimei1926]

回复Hope_Hope的评论:

在今天这个痛苦的日子尤其感谢朋友们的安慰！

[yimei1926]

回复南山松的评论:

谢谢可爱的小松妹妹对我的一贯支持和鼓励!

[Hope_Hope]

伊梅，

你远方的朋友，今天来到你这里坐坐。
没有太多的话语，只是想告诉你，
假如你无言沉默，你并不孤单寂寞，
因为在天涯海角，
依然有一位朋友和你风雨同过。

你的伤你的痛你的思念，也一样遍及天涯海角，
因为有无数的朋友，
和你风雨同过。

珍重。

望望

[南山松]

好美丽的花朵，献给妈妈，真好。