留给孩子们的金玉良言：男女关系

To my daughters:On dating- Follow you heart, have fun, be safe.On choosing a husband- Is he your best friend?- Is he good enough to father your children?- Do you love him for who he is, not for who he might become?On marriage- Always seek to understand, then ask to be understood.- Every day, find at least one thing you appreciate in him, and let him know.- Don't expect to agree on all about life. Instead try to agree on what life is all about.刚刚问我老公有什么可补充的， 他加了一句：If you are not sure that he is the one, he probably isn't. Don't marry him！ 我再加一句, 希望用不上：- You are more than your marriage, if it fails, you don't necessarily fail. Get up and move on.

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I have one simple rule for your little girls: if he is willing to cook for you everyday, then you cannot be too wrong. (The other direction is also true: if you are willing to cook for him everyday, then again you cannot be too wrong.)