大纲

1。 whom do you want to be, rule breaker/creater or rule follower ?2. Find a self-sufficient person to be your spouse3. 蒸包子还是争气的问题4。 where is your sense of security from? 5. Do what you love; love what you do; do what you can; and do what you want but can't. At least, do what you can, this can give you some happiess and peace of mind.
6. How to resolve conflicts: 1)always communicate, and start with "I" but not "You"; 2) never go extreme. Your life is for you to enjoy all the beautiful things in the world, nothing is worthy for you to ruin it.
7. Love should make each of you to be a better person