飞舟行云 评论于:2008-10-31 05:35:24
JM们好!认识各位很久很久了,但至今才潜出水面.而且是这里... ...
一直关注着此事.心疼着大家的心疼;遗憾着大家的遗憾.想对几位说,从这件事,从你们的应对和表现,我学到很多.谢谢各位.不能给大家端茶倒水,转贴小诗一首,换换心情.
Sometimes people come into your life
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
You never know who these people may be
but when you lock eyes with them,
you know at that very moment,
They will affect your life in some profound way
They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
And now it is time for you to move on.
Then people come into your life for a REASON
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
Everything happens for a reason.
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
for they have helped you learn about trust
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
Try to love them back unconditionally,
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under the sun.
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
God's grace is as a healing hand.
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
will remain always safe in our hearts.
By the way,
Worldling, 你真有大和尚的智慧和空灵.
歌儿,这个世界,总是有黑白颠倒的时候,总是有别人辜负你的时候,总是有很多不尽人意,无法改变的结局.面对这些,从学会说不,到学会不说,不是胆怯,而是有面对现实的勇气,是成长,成熟,是有智慧。你的善良,有目共睹.
有缘才有聚散。真的情分断了,就互道珍重,或是默默转身,毕竟曾经相伴一程。
希望没被认为干涉他人的活法.
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歌儿按:这篇是飞舟行云姐姐送给我们的,很喜欢,贴出来跟歌友会的姐妹们分享。:)
这几首诗真棒,可以收藏吗? :)
我选的新分类名字可入姐姐的眼?:)
也许放下,或转身,不一定要放弃,告别.
过去的事情就让它过去.为了过好今天,明天的事情也可以等来了再说.有个朋友告诉我:把通往昨天的后门和通往明天的前门关了,人就会轻松很多.我们试试看?
歌儿,我又想要干涉你的活法了.悄悄地问,能不能把"告别XX吧',改为"迎接XX吧'或"奔向XX吧'? 对我爱,我在乎的人和事,我也做不到“不干涉他人活法”.
真是群芳荟萃歌友会,喜欢! --zt
抱抱,呵呵。我就会这个。呵呵。
真是群芳荟萃歌友会,喜欢! --zt
真是跟你一样,一会觉得意犹未尽,一回又觉得挺好,好像是看怎麽断句吧
真是群芳荟萃歌友会,喜欢! --zt
你的诗写得真好,pfpf。
真是群芳荟萃歌友会,喜欢!
生活就是这样
做出选择
而不后悔--我加一句
小鹿,你写得真好,那些句子就象小河水在心中流淌。另外我和睡猫猫一样,看到结尾意犹未尽,感觉好似还有两句没写完:)
冰天雪地,你脸上的豆豆是不是也是憋出来的啊?:)
我能紧紧地闭口
为什么
却挡不住眼中泪水溢出
可是因为它
曾见证过你的美丽
我能默默地转身
为什么
却抹不掉心中忧伤流淌
可是因为它
曾幻想过你的情谊
我能轻轻翻过这一页
为什么
却容不下墙角污秽的飞溅
可是因为我
仍坚信世间美好的真情
真高兴见到看海妹妹。
写得好!可是不知怎麽觉得结尾有点草率似的,你有没有其他的想法?
看海mm,我有一个真实的故事,想送给你。等我有时间写下来,送给你哈。这个故事有可能会给你一点安慰。
可以转贴吗?
心是那
春日暖风里的一条河
欢快地奔涌前去
还是那
河里的藤草
缠缠绕绕
攀结着无端的心事
心有过
恬恬淡淡的喜悦
闪闪跳跃一河的
碎金
也曾经
汹汹涌涌的翻腾
彷徨无奈一河的
暗流
心似那
冬日晨阳里的河
曾经静静地流淌
也曾经暗暗地忧伤
为那有过雀跃的河谷
但不要回头
想去寻找丢失的梦想
既然做河
就流向前方
百川纳海
告别已近干涸的狭谷
奔向如歌的洋
生活就是这样
做出选择
小胖妮,PP或者饼饼。:)
有奖竞猜,我是谁的马甲?我的题图的帅哥是谁?
猜中的,歌儿赠送香吻三个!
GOOD NIGHT:)