Sister, life is short, and life is precious.

1) Does happiness band with age? No.

Please ACCEPT yourself as who you are, facing problems and difficulties, and then make changes step by step.

None is perfect in this world. Someone get mature earlier than others. As far as you consummate yourself with good human natures, nothing matters with your physical age.

2) Given first and Gain it later.

Please give your love, pardons to others at first, please make others happy at first, then you will gain these goodies from others.

3) Life is all about making friends

Living in this world, although learning knowledge from textbook and gaining excellence from professional career are so important for individual’s independence, I believe, the essence of our life is about how to deal with others - our friends, our family members, our lovers, even strangers.

4) Be careful what you are going to speak out.

It’s so important to think about what you should say, what should not. The words you spoke out are just like water thrown out of bucket, can not take it back. Well, water don’t hurt anyone, your word does!

5) Thinking from other’s point of view

Because you grew up in an upper-class family, you were always protected by invisible social network. That environment was so pure and clean, you knew outside of world very less, or you didn’t know true face of real world. Try to think from other’s angle, especially those from a family in a lower-class than yours.

Sister, I am truly speaking from my heart. Pardon me if any words above makes you felt uncomfortable.

Sister, wake up. Life is short, and life is precious.