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(2007-10-05 19:38:04)
读完了张爱玲的小说《色戒》，并没有觉得里面有许多“色”的描述。我还没有看过电影，但是从网络上的宣传到公映好像都离不开一个“色”字，激情戏似乎成了这部戏的代名词。电影本身叫做“色戒”，对广大的观众来说则像是“色诱”。和电影相比，小说本身并没有让我觉得特别的与众不同，因为篇幅有限，对佳芝情爱和性爱心理的刻划和描述并没有显得很细腻。[阅读全文]
(2007-10-05 11:50:03)
Iwasnotawarewhetitstarted.Sometimes,IcountedinEnglishinfrontofmyboyjustwantinghimtofeelaboutanotherlanguage.Oneday,Icountedagain.Mom:one.Boy:Two.Momwasshocked.“WhendidmyboylearntosaynumbersinEnglish?Letmetryhimagain.”Mom:Three.Boy:Four,thoughnotasclearandperfectasanativeboy.Momapplauded.“Isheabletocountmore?”Mom:Five.Boy:Onlysmile.Mom:Seven.Boy:Onlysmile.Well,hismemoryonlyhasstoredtwonumbers:t...[阅读全文]
(2007-10-03 19:14:46)
昨天在WXC博客首页看到一个题目：手写的信。点击进去的时候被disturb了，所以没有看到正文和作者，但是映入眼帘的一张信封底面的照片却留给我深深的印象，也勾起了我的回忆和联想。我正式写信是从上大学开始的，当时长途电话不像现在这样普及，打电话对一个学生来说还是件很奢侈的事，于是和家人，朋友的联络方式就只有写信了。那时候真的体会到了“家书抵万[阅读全文]
(2007-09-29 17:47:42)
Loveisanactivity,notapassiveaffect;itisa“standingin,"[2]nota“fallingfor."[3]Inthemostgeneralway,theactivecharacteroflovecanbedescribedbystatingthatloveisprimarilygiving,notreceiving.Whatisgiving?Simpleastheanswertothisquestionseemstobe,itisactuallyfullofambiguitiesandcomplexities.Themostwidespreadmisunderstandingisthatwhichassumesthatgivingis"givingup"something,beingdeprivedof,sacrificing.T...[阅读全文]
(2007-09-29 17:46:08)
byErichFrommIncontrasttosymbioticunion,matureloveisunionundertheconditionofpreservingone'sintegrity,one'sindividuality.Loveisanactivepowerinman;apowerwhichbreaksthroughthewallswhichseparatemanfromhisfellowmen,whichuniteshimwithothers;lovemakeshimovercomethesenseofisolationandseparateness,yetitpermitshimtobehimself,toretainhisintegrity.Inlovetheparadoxoccursthattwobeingsbecomeoneandyetremaintwo.Ifw...[阅读全文]
(2007-09-26 20:10:22)
byJudySyfers
JudySyfers,awife,andmotheroftwochildren,arguesinthisessayforawifeofherown.Althoughherargumentmightseemstrange,herpositionwillbecomeapparentonceyoumoveintotheessay.
Ibelongtothatclassificationofpeopleknownaswives.IamAWife.And,notaltogetherincidentally,Iamamother.Nottoolongagoamalefriendofmineappearedonthescenefreshfromarecentdivorce.Hehadonechild,whois,ofcourse,withhisex...[阅读全文]
(2007-09-24 14:54:41)
(Note:ThefollowingisaveryhumorousessaywrittenbyDaveBarry,ahumorist.Icouldnotresistlaughingwhilereadingit.Hopefully,youwillenjoyittoo.)================================================
Ifyou'reaman,atsomepointawomanwillaskyouhowshelooks.
"HowdoIlook?"she'llask.
Youmustbecarefulhowyouanswerthisquestion.Thebesttechniqueistoformanhonestyetsensitiveopinion,thencollapseonthef...[阅读全文]
(2007-09-23 17:26:06)
Themovie“LoveActually”wasfirstreleasedinChristmasseasonof2003.Itwasacomedycomposedbyseveralromanticlovestoriesoflovers,familyandfriends.Thereweretwistsandturnsinlove,butmostoftimewasheartwarmingandbreathtaking.OneofthestorieswasaboutstepfatherDanielandsonSam.Theirrelationshipwaslikefriendsratherthansimplefatherandson.Withtheguidanceandencouragement,Samsatisfiedhisdream.
Anotherstoryha...[阅读全文]
(2007-09-22 19:54:57)
Thedeepsentimentsuccessfullycorneredandcaughtheragaininthequietlonelynightalthoughshehadpreparedtofightwithitbravely.Whatashame!Shelostthegameagain.Wasthesentimentnotlikeaterriblegerm,whichwassofondofher?Whattheworstwasheremotionalimmunesystemwastoofragiletodefendtheattack.Whenallfactsfailedtoliveuptotheexcitementandappreciationpromisedbyeverypieceofmemory,atthemomentwhentheywasstillfreshandv...[阅读全文]
(2007-09-22 17:23:39)
Holidaysbringpeoplehappiness.Holidaysalsomakepeoplesad,especiallywhentheyaretrappedinemotionalcrisiswithoutanyonetoleanon.Sohowdopeopleputonanairofjoyratherthanbeinggloomyduringholiday?Themovie“TheHoliday”illustratesaway.Amandawasatoughgirl,whoworkedveryhardtoearnbigbucksandledarichlifeinLA.However,herboyfriendcheatedonher,whichdrovehernuts.Underhersuperficialtoughnessliedweaknessanduncerta...[阅读全文]
