Threeweeksago,IfeltpreparedtotakeonBJJ.48yearold,Ifeltmystrength
andendurancewereattheirpeaks.Ifnotnow,when?Thefirstthreeweekshave
notbeeneasy,however.Mypoorneck,whichhasreceivedlittleattentionfromme
aslongasIhavelived,allofasuddenisexposedtoattacksineveryway.
Intraining,wedonotpunchorkickbutsubmitanopponentmainlyusingchokes
andjointlocks.WhenIamcaughtinatriangle,forexample,theg...[
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ItwasashortweekasIonlysparredthreedaysoutoffive(AlthoughIshowed
upeveryday).IwascaughtinadeepguillotineonWedandhasbeenrecovering
since.Weightliftingorrunninghadnotpreparedmefordefendingchokeholdsand
thereforeneckandshoulderpainmightbecomearecurringthemeuntiladaptation
tothenewmovementsiscomplete.Ihavestarteddailydrillstobuilduptheneck.
Ihavemetmorepeopleonthemat,includingWeiqith...[
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Inoneweek,I'vemetandchattedwithmorepeoplethaninthepastyearanda
half,peoplestrong,knowledgeable,andofgreatcharacter.Eric,aslender
Asianandtheheadcoach,welcomedmeandtaughtmepersonallyaninvaluable
lessonononeprincipleofattack.Hedidn'thesitateinpointingoutthatwe
hadtobesmarterasweweremostlikelytofacebiggeropponents.CoachGene,
astockywhiteguy,answeredmyquestionswithsuccinctanddet...[
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Itisnotthecriticwhocounts;notthemanwhopointsouthowthestrongmanstumbled,orwherethedoerofdeedscouldhavedonebetter.Thecreditbelongstothemanwhoisactuallyinthearena;whosefaceismarredbydustandsweatandblood;whostrivesvaliantly;whoerrsandcomesshortagainandagain;whoknowsthegreatenthusiasms,thegreatdevotions,andspendshimselfinaworthycause;whoatthebestknowsintheendthetriumphofhighachievement;andwhoattheworst...[
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VaccinatedforCovid,TimreturnedtoBJJandjoinedtheadultsearlyJune.
Overthepastyearandahalf,theteenagerhadreached5'7"andputonabout
40lbs.Theheadcoachaskedjokingly"Whatdidyoufeedhim?""Youmeanwhat
hefedonbehindmyback?"Irepliedwithresignation.WhileTimwasonthe
mat,Iwouldoftenreadandwriteonmylaptopinthecar.
ButsoonInoticedalackofpassion.Trainingwiththeadults,...[
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Onthemat,IwascaughtinaguillotinebySteven,aheavystrongAsiandude
(whoturnedouttobea2nd-genChinese)inhis30s.Hisrightarmwassqueezing
andhislegs,wrappingaroundmybody,werestretchingforextraleverage.My
neckfeltthepressureandIhadtotap.IvaguelyrememberedthatHenrytaught
awayoutbutcouldn'tdoanythingatthemoment.
ThelastdayofJune,withtheadductorinjuryalmosthealed,IjoinedTimand
twodoze...[
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Istartedliftingthe48kgkettlebell(akathebeast)ayearago.Insixmonths,
Iwasabletodo3x3gobletsquatsand10x10two-armswings.Thencamethe
adductortwitch(akaabdominaltendinopathy)andIhadtostopheavysquats.
Thankfully,theswingwasnotaffected.
Ihave"waved"loadbyalternatingthe40kgandthe48kgovertheweek:
-Mon:10x1040kgone-armswings
-Wed:10x1048kgtwo-armswings
-Fri:10x1040kgone-arm...[
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20yearsagowhenIfirstcametothewest,againsttheculturalandlanguage
barrierIfeltdeafanddumb.Eachtinyinteractionwiththeoutsideremindedme
ofthehopelessnessofthesituation.Daily,deepdoubtsaboutthefuturevexed
me.Lookingback,however,itwasn'tthatbad.Foronething,itkeptmefrom
wastingtimeinfrontoftheTV.
Ofcourse,IhavereadanddonemyshareofWeb-surfingandmovie-watching.
UnliketheTVorevenra...[
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Bill'snewhobby,copyingafull-sizeddictionarywordforword,hasbeenmet
withfirstcuriosityandthenridiculefromhisbetterhalf.Toher,Billis
losingsightofhiscareer."Whatifyouliveto100andknoweverywordunder
thesun,butrunoutofmoneybeforeyoudie?"Amysometimeswouldmock.Inher
mind,runningoutofmoney,anytime,isabsolutelytheworstthingthatcould
happenandtimeisbestinvestedinone'strade.
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IsawaclipafewweeksagowhereanAsian(John)waspummelledbyablack
guy(Tyrone)onaNewYorksubwaytrain.Tyronewasfitandabout3inchestaller
andJohnwasnomatch.AsJohngaveupfightingandturnedaway,protectinghis
headwithhishands,TyronethrewhisrightarmaroundJohn'sneckandputhim
tosleepwitharearnakedchoke.TyronemightknowsomeJiu-Jitsu,itoccrredto
meatthetime.
JohncouldnotturntofaceTyronetobreak...[
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