我应该怎么做才能挽回?转贴彰彰
来源：http://web.wenxuecity.com/BBSView.php?SubID=romance&MsgID=521278从头到尾都是我的错。我没有好好珍惜他，现在他决定走了不再回头我才明白原来真的很爱他。可是是不是太迟了？非常懊悔，悲痛欲绝。每天都在眼泪中生存，非常痛恨自己的过错和自私。后悔自己所作所为伤了他。现在的痛苦和悲伤真的是我自己咎由自取。如果他给我机会一定好[阅读全文]
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(2009-06-10 04:09:28)
(2008-10-22 14:11:07)
我的大学在一个滨海城市，我们学校有一块海滩给全校学生用，我们的海滩与海运学院的海滩相连，夏天的下午，没课的时候我们经常与同学结伴游泳去。有一年夏天，天气奇热，我们班那些天天游泳的男生个个晒的像黑黑的刚果人，并且还兴剃光头，结果我们班主任老师有一天上课看着那些男生的光头笑容灿烂地说:咱们班怎么忽然变成非洲班了呢?那是大学二年级。那年夏天[阅读全文]
(2008-07-03 09:25:47)
Ifwecanfollowourbetterjudgmentinlife,wewillhaveabetter,moresatisfyinglife.Dowefeelitthatway?
Askourselves:Whatreallysuitme?Alifeassimpleaspossible,sothat,wewillbeabletodo/achievesomethingourselvesandtoappreciateandrespectourfriendsinthebestway?Or,alifeascomplicatedaspossible,sothatIhavetodealwithcompetingneedsfromdifferentpeople?HowcanImanagethat?Doespossessingsomethingthatshouldnotbelongtomeg...[阅读全文]
Askourselves:Whatreallysuitme?Alifeassimpleaspossible,sothat,wewillbeabletodo/achievesomethingourselvesandtoappreciateandrespectourfriendsinthebestway?Or,alifeascomplicatedaspossible,sothatIhavetodealwithcompetingneedsfromdifferentpeople?HowcanImanagethat?Doespossessingsomethingthatshouldnotbelongtomeg...[阅读全文]
(2008-05-01 10:21:35)
Weoftenforgetthemostimportantthinginlife:Appreciation.
Appreciationforthewonderfulworldwearelivingin,fortheingeniouscreation,forthecomfortableserviceweenjoyed,fortheideas,thoughtswesharedwitheachother,andfortheloveanddevotionwereceivedfromfamily,friendsandstrangers.
Reviewingtheimportanceofappreciationgivesmetheinspirationtoappreciateothers:
Anonymous:
Awordofencouragementduringafa...[阅读全文]
Appreciationforthewonderfulworldwearelivingin,fortheingeniouscreation,forthecomfortableserviceweenjoyed,fortheideas,thoughtswesharedwitheachother,andfortheloveanddevotionwereceivedfromfamily,friendsandstrangers.
Reviewingtheimportanceofappreciationgivesmetheinspirationtoappreciateothers:
Anonymous:
Awordofencouragementduringafa...[阅读全文]
(2008-04-30 08:15:34)
玫：
昨晚我半夜醒来，又睡不着了。睁着眼睛望着眼前漆黑的一团，思绪万千，想收也收不住。
想了好几个题目，人应该过什么样的生活?我真的相信平淡是真吗?什么是尊重婚姻?是像人家说的，无论什么事情发生，就是不能分离?就好像人最宝贵的是生命，所以永远，好死不如赖活着?
我内心真正相信这些吗?思来想去，我本以为自己已经信了的所谓真理，其实，我心[阅读全文]
昨晚我半夜醒来，又睡不着了。睁着眼睛望着眼前漆黑的一团，思绪万千，想收也收不住。
想了好几个题目，人应该过什么样的生活?我真的相信平淡是真吗?什么是尊重婚姻?是像人家说的，无论什么事情发生，就是不能分离?就好像人最宝贵的是生命，所以永远，好死不如赖活着?
我内心真正相信这些吗?思来想去，我本以为自己已经信了的所谓真理，其实，我心[阅读全文]
(2008-04-28 11:22:55)
今天发现我的贴被网管放在了首页，意外啊！感谢网管的推荐，也对你们日复一日的辛苦工作表示深深谢意。下面一首很老很老的歌曲送给你们欣赏。。。金梭和银梭 作词:李幼容作曲:金凤浩
太阳像一把金梭
月亮像一把银梭
交给你也交给我
看谁能织出最美的生活
啊,金梭和银梭
日夜在穿梭
时光如流水
督促你和我
年轻人别消磨
珍惜今[阅读全文]
(2008-04-25 02:43:07)
Tobetrustedisagreatercomplimentthanbeingloved.------GeorgeMacDonald
We'reneversovulnerablethanwhenwetrustsomeone-butparadoxically,ifwecannottrust,neithercanwefindloveorjoy”------WalterAndersonIfallmyfriendsweretojumpoffabridge,Iwouldn'tfollow.I'dbeatthebottomtocatchthemwhentheyfall.”
Followyourheart,butbequietforawhilefirst.Askquestions,thenfeeltheanswer.Learntotrustyourheart.”
Ikno...[阅读全文]
(2008-04-24 14:17:08)
 Envision Trust <br><br>Clarify exactly what you want. Get motivated with a clear picture of the value of building trust. Affirm what it will take to create trust. Start with the end in mind. <br><br>STEP 2) Listen Fully <br><br>Allow yourself to listen completely to others. Listening leads to understanding which causes trust. Use what you hear to adjust your trust-building activities. Keep opening yourself and listening. <br><br>PHASE TWO -8 days<br><br>STEP 3) Open Yourself<br><br>Discover what it takes for you to be open with others in your workplace. Build inner compassion for those you fear or dislike. Reveal more of yourself and model the openness you desire from others.<br><br>STEP 4) Appreciate Others<br><br>Learn how to appreciate others effectively such that you encourage desired behaviours and strengthen mutual trust. Notice the enormous impact of appreciation. <br><br>STEP 5) Be Reliable and Consistent<br><br>Upgrade your reliability and consistency to sustain high trust levels. Raise your awareness of your behaviours that threaten trust. Learn valuable techniques for reducing your own unintended breaking of trust. <br><br>PHASE THREE -5 days<br><br>STEP 6) Converse Frankly<br><br>Plan and carry out constructive conversations with key people with whom you are building trust. Build stronger foundations of trust. Mend past misunderstandings. Engage in building trust. <br><br>STEP 7) Notice the Difference<br><br>Become aware of the subtle and the obvious changes you have created throughout the course. Celebrate your success! Thank yourself. Be grateful for the challenges and the support you received. Commit to continuing to build trust.<br>){kind=spacer}
Trustisthefoundationthatallowspeopletoworktogethereffectivelyasateam,andallowsallteammemberstobeattheirbest.
Ifyoucantrustothersmore,youcanreceivemoresupport.Youcanworkmorefreelyandhappily.Youcanachievemore.
Ifyourworkmatestrustyoumoretheywilllistentoyou.Theywillopenupandsharemoreabouttherealproblemstheyface.Youwillunderstandthembetterandbeabletoinfluencethemmore.
Thiscoursewillle...[阅读全文]
