戴同学从一开始就只是myreboundboyfriend；阴差阳错地住在一起后，也只是室友而已；结婚九年，仅有的一点感情，在一次又一次的争吵中消失殆尽。
戴同学是一次品，可惜的是，悟性极低的我，明白的太晚。
一句无心的评论，一个无意的动作，会让他暴跳如雷，非要指责我故意伤害他，故意不尊重他。我越解释，他越无理。他第一次指责我manipulate他的时候，我连manipulation[阅读全文]
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(2007-12-27 21:18:37)
(2007-03-25 17:19:52)
DearMama,
Ihopeyouarereadingthisfromheavenabove.
Yesterday,whileIwaswatchingpartofamovieonOxygenchannelcalled"Beforewomenhavewings",Ihadanepiphany:nomothermeanstohurtherownchildreninanyway.Butwhenthepainamotherhastobearbyherselfbecomestoomuch,andithasbeensuppressedfortoolong,justlikeavulcano,soonerorlater,iterupts,justlikethemotherinthemovie,shejustlostcontrolofherself.
Mama,...[阅读全文]
Ihopeyouarereadingthisfromheavenabove.
Yesterday,whileIwaswatchingpartofamovieonOxygenchannelcalled"Beforewomenhavewings",Ihadanepiphany:nomothermeanstohurtherownchildreninanyway.Butwhenthepainamotherhastobearbyherselfbecomestoomuch,andithasbeensuppressedfortoolong,justlikeavulcano,soonerorlater,iterupts,justlikethemotherinthemovie,shejustlostcontrolofherself.
Mama,...[阅读全文]
(2007-03-21 15:26:45)
Lastnightafterdinner,Michelle,myfive-yearoldtookoutsomepaperandmarkersandstartedtodosomeartwork.Severalminuteslatershecametoshowmeher"masterpiece",Ipaidhermycompliments,shewalkedawayhappily,returnedseveralminuteslaterwithmoreadditiontoherartwork.Ablacklinewasaddedacrossthepapertodivideherartworkintwosections,thebottomsectionhadadrawingofateddybearandword"FREE".Iwaspuzzledandaskedherwhatitwasabout....[阅读全文]
(2007-03-19 17:11:35)
Anyonewatch"Grey'sAnatomy"?IwonderCristinaYangwhoisextremelycompetitiveandalmostegocentricmightbewhatourdaughterswillbecome.
ItseemsthatallChineseparentspushtheirkidsreallyhardacademically,almostexclusivelyfocusedonacademics.Meanwhile,Americanparentsaremoreconcernedabouttheirkids'emotionaldevelopmentandsocialabilities.Theyspendenormousamountoftimeparticipatingextra-curriculumactivitiesoth...[阅读全文]
(2007-03-18 13:03:56)
Thismaysoundlikeashamelessrequest.ButhereistheAmericanspirit:yourfightforwhatyoubelievein.
I'mnewtothisforum,butIenjoyitbecauseitisawell-organizedandactively-participatedone.Thoughnewtotheforum,I'mnotnewtoalotofthetopicsthatarediscussedhere.Iliketosharewiththelike-mindsinthisforummyownthoughtsandexperience.LastnightIwroteupaposting"FitintheAmericanmain-streamsocietyorembracethemain-streamcultu...[阅读全文]
I'mnewtothisforum,butIenjoyitbecauseitisawell-organizedandactively-participatedone.Thoughnewtotheforum,I'mnotnewtoalotofthetopicsthatarediscussedhere.Iliketosharewiththelike-mindsinthisforummyownthoughtsandexperience.LastnightIwroteupaposting"FitintheAmericanmain-streamsocietyorembracethemain-streamcultu...[阅读全文]
(2007-03-18 02:14:38)
Itonlytakesme15yearstohavetheepiphany:stoptryingtofitin,startembracingtheculture.
Quiteoftenwhenwethinkingofembracingtheculture,wegethungupononeaspect:fitinthesociety.IthinkthedefinitionofAmericanmain-streamcultureisbroad,ithasmanyaspectsandconsistsmanysub-culture.Tonameafew:language,value,religion,politics,history,ethnicgroup,socialcustomandettique,sports,literature.Thelistgoesonandon.
Va...[阅读全文]
Quiteoftenwhenwethinkingofembracingtheculture,wegethungupononeaspect:fitinthesociety.IthinkthedefinitionofAmericanmain-streamcultureisbroad,ithasmanyaspectsandconsistsmanysub-culture.Tonameafew:language,value,religion,politics,history,ethnicgroup,socialcustomandettique,sports,literature.Thelistgoesonandon.
Va...[阅读全文]
(2007-03-08 00:19:59)
Ihavewantedtowritemyownblogforawhile.Notbecauseit'sachicthing.it'sbecauselivingintheUnitedStatescangetverylonely.Weworkduringtheday,workmorewhenwecomehome:housework,kids,workwork.Therearetoomuchtodobutnotenoughtime.Butdeepdown,weallwanttoreachout,wearealllongingforsomeconnection.Sowestarttotalktothecomputerbecauseit'ssoavailable24x7,sonotjudgemental.Ifwewanttohavesometimewithourspouseorfriend,ohth...[阅读全文]
