下面讨论录取名校是否报喜,不用顾虑别人怎么想，看看我对女儿说的

我和女儿最近的交流：

我观察女儿应该干脆果断做决定时犹豫不快，总想面面俱到，让所有人都满意.

这是我告诉她的，尊重别人是对的，but it's impossible to make everyone happy all the time, just do what you think is right. 不用在乎所有人的感受.

生活中各人教育，文化和家庭背景都不一样，认知也不同，不会都赞同或理解你的理念，so be it.

就像微信朋友圈，有人会屏蔽我，do I care? Not for a single second. 尊重别人的选择but My life is for my own happiness, not anyone else's. As long as I have a good group of friends who share the same mindset, that's enough.