穿衣好看的小小窍门

刚才工作的时候不专心，开小差，网上看油管的博主们教穿衣打扮。我也跃跃欲试，总结了几条立竿见影，穿衣好看的小小窍门。

 

1。穿衣注重整体效果，好看的第一要素是身材比例好。用服饰，鞋子营造出从头到腰，腰到脚底1比1.618的比例，要极力避免五五开。无论服饰的图案和面料多么高级，牌子多么有名，样式多么流行，如果无法营造出上短下长的身材比例，也要目不斜视地离开，绝不多看一眼。

 

2。系上腰带，强调腰际线。如果姐有不足盈盈一握的纤纤细腰那就不用多说了。即使腰身粗壮，系上腰带也显得有气场，很自信，有发言权。腰带一卡，身材的好比例就给定义出来了。

好钢用在刃上，有钱没钱多花一些在腰带上。黑色，棕色，白色，红色，金属色，宽的，窄的，花式的，粗犷的，文艺的，多存几条。无论如何搭配，腰带总是可以起到画龙点睛的效果。相对大几千花在包包上，也许同档次的腰带和鞋子性价比更高。

 

3。一定要适当露出肌肤。脚踝，小手臂，脖颈下的三角区，身形再粗壮，这些部位一般都相对纤细，都适合大大方方地露出来。长袖衬衣，一定要扣上袖扣拉起或半卷起袖子，卷起的高度与腰带的位置平齐。短袖T恤，也将袖子卷起一段小边， 让手臂侧面形成一个上弧形，造成手臂纤细的视觉误差。或者干脆就穿无袖的，只是要注意衣服的肩洞一定要挖得合适，过小显得局促，过大就是潦草了。

 

4。尽量选择有领子的上衣或者连衣裙。无论长袖，短袖，带领子的衣服自带气场，与没有领子的衣服相比也正式多了，并且还有多种搭配的潜力，属于非常省心的选择。质地柔软的面料，没有任何装饰褶皱的圆领是最不容易穿出时尚效果的。所以T恤只适合身材瘦削的年轻姑娘们。不想穿出胡同里的大妈味儿，一定要离T恤能多远，就有多远。

穿没有领子的上衣，需要特意制造出V领，多层次，看看古装剧里的女角们的服饰，就明白了。

 

5。一身白是夏季里最高级的时髦。清爽，干净、简单、克制的白，虽不着一色，却能表达出非常丰富的个性。长袖，短袖，背心，长裤，短裤，窄裙，只要注意好身材比例，选择简单和适合年龄的款式，随便发挥，只出彩不出错。

 

[简单一点好]

都是金科玉律。个人觉得只要不过分注重打扮，适当美一美，也是可以的。想当美国大妈也是可以的，整天穿着T恤牛仔，也很潇洒。

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回复 'elfie' 的评论 :
Thank you for leaving long comments on my blog. I appreciate your honesty and openness, and I'm glad that you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts openly.

I agree with you that it's important to be vulnerable and to let our guard down sometimes. It can be difficult to do, but it's worth it in the long run. When we open ourselves up to others, we create deeper connections and build stronger relationships.

I also agree with you that there are many different ways to enjoy life. Dressing up nicely is just one way, and it's not the only way that's important. There are many other things that can bring us joy and we should live the fullness of our life on the earth, as mentioned in Ecclesiastes 9:7-9, 7 Go, eat your food with gladness, and drink your wine with a joyful heart, for God has already approved what you do. 8 Always be clothed in white, and always anoint your head with oil. (not literally, meaning spending time and effort) 9 Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God has given you under the sun—all your meaningless days. For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.

I appreciate your sharing your thoughts about your mom's expectations. It sounds like she wants you to look your best because she loves you and wants you to be happy.

The longer you stay in America, this beautiful country formed by immigrants, the different lenses you will use to look at people, you won’t notice the skin color of the people. You will appreciate the diversity of the community and the different kinds of beauty from different races.

Finally, Just want to share a quote from Matthew 6:27, 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? It's a reminder that we shouldn't worry about things that are beyond our control. And you will find that almost nothing is under our control. So why worry about them?

[elfie]

I'm always amazed by the people or women like you. Honestly I don't care if I look good because very few people around me care about it. The people working in my school are mostly females and blacks. In this school no one cares about their looks. At another school I worked at before, teachers apparently dress better than this current one. Maybe that attribute to school performance too? Or it's just a coincidence and not causal effects. My mother, who lives 7000 miles away from me, is the only person that cares about fashion. And the most strange thing is she wants me to look good too. Why? it beats me. In the world I live in, dresses and skirts are so rare it's negligible. Most Americans are in T-shirts and weird tops and bottoms, too obese to fit into a nice dress or slacker. Beauty is not an issue or concern for most people. Indeed we live in different worlds, my mother and I. There is so much more to worry about in daily life than an outfit.

[一个没有惊艳的老树]

haha

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回复 '红泥小火炉2022' 的评论 : 谢谢

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回复 '一个没有惊艳的老树' 的评论 : 肯定可以的。试试吧，实践出真知啊。

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回复 'diaozhi' 的评论 : 您说得对，没想替男士瞎操心。

[diaozhi]

谢谢。

不过，这些小窍门似不适用于男士？

[一个没有惊艳的老树]

若是六十岁的人，也这么打扮吗？

[红泥小火炉2022]

很好的总结！