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想象一下：你新搬进一个公寓后，发现你被里面的蟑螂包围了，它们时不时出现在你的所有物品中，甚至在冰箱里出现。这会不会对你造成心理创伤？
我孩子为了暑假的实习工作，不幸住进了一个蟑螂成灾的公寓，在那里住了几乎三个月。
这是孩子第一次自己一个人住一个公寓，还要独自面对一个蟑螂王国。
杀虫公司去杀了两次，加上孩子自己放的各种roach traps，也没能彻底消灭各种蟑螂，死的活的还是不断出现在各处，包括洗碗机，锅碗瓢盆，床边……，蟑螂简直是无处不在。
孩子自从住进那个公寓后，几乎每天都和我们讲蟑螂的问题，讲了一个多月后就不再讲了，因为再讲还是在重复老问题，没有彻底解决的办法，现在还差几天她就完成实习可以搬走了。
孩子给我的text message：
I should be given some kind of award for dealing with the roach problem.
Most mental fortitude and grace of anyone ever who has lived in this apartment.
我立即写给她的鼓励：
You used to scream when you see spiders. Now after the roach immersion, you’re able to calmly deal with and co-exist with them, this takes incredible personal strength. Basically you have transformed yourself by lifting your bug-fear away. Although you’re still disgusted by the roaches, you managed to get even with them during this long lasting battle. Here I am honored to issue you the Roach-Combat Hero Award!
孩子一看就高兴了，她的灭虫挣扎和努力被看到了！
