我孩子为了暑假的实习工作,不幸住进了一个蟑螂成灾的公寓,在那里住了三个月,每天和蟑螂斗智斗勇。这是孩子第一次自己一个人住一个公寓,还要独自面对一个蟑螂王国,细节就不说了,反正经常有令她震惊的新发现。
孩子自从住进那个公寓后,几乎每天都和我们讲蟑螂的问题,她集中火力讲了一个多月,甚至做起了蟑螂的噩梦。现在她终于完成实习可以搬走了。她最后一次下班时让她觉得bittersweet,舍不得离开同事们,又想尽快离开那蟑螂公寓。
一周前孩子给我的text message:
I should be given some kind of award for dealing with the roach problem.
Most mental fortitude and grace of anyone ever who has lived in this apartment.
我立即写给她的鼓励:
You used to scream when you see spiders. Now after the roach immersion, you’re able to calmly deal with and co-exist with them, this takes incredible personal strength. Basically you have transformed yourself by lifting your bug-fear away. Although you’re still disgusted by the roaches, you managed to get even with them during this long lasting battle. Here I am honored to issue you the Roach-Combat Hero Award!
孩子一看就高兴了,她的灭虫挣扎和努力被我看到了!她已经和朋友去听了一个充满乐趣的演唱会,希望她尽快淡忘这个噩梦。
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