6个简单心理学技巧

读到星坛网友原点MM的心理学小知识，想起在Instagram上看到一则“6个简单心理学技巧“，觉得也很有意思，在这里和大家分享，下面每一条“注释”算是自己一点点心得吧，

 

1. If someone insults you, pause for a second and look at them and say "Are you okay?"

（注1：避免了他人99%的问题成为自己的问题。）

 

2. If you think someone is lying, look at their eyes and don't say anything.

（注2：尴尬的一定不是自己。）

 

3. If you're in an argument, keep your voice calm, it'll give them the impression that you're winning the argument.

（注3：这是避免冲突（争吵）的一个好方法！）

 

4. Good posture increases confidence. Spread your body out and take up more space, it'll lead to increased confidence.

（注4: 可以做小个实验，录一个自己的视频，看看是否认识自己，也许会惊到，当然开美颜滤镜不算。如果认识，恭喜！）

 

5. Your eyes dilate when talking to a person you love.

（注5: 带着爱意注视所爱的人，表达出来善念，很多人不习惯盯着对方的眼睛说话交流，应该成为一种自然而然的习惯。）

 

6. If you're not following me you're probably never going to see me again. If you are, 

congratulations you're growing mentally every day.

（注6：共同见证彼此的成长。）