女儿刚刚回复了有关pecan的去留如下：

“We did some research. We are ok with Peter having the Pecans. 

Its probably safer to put food in food safe containers in the future.”

我回复：“sure, I will. I just forgot about it  that day.”. 

女儿："Ok, thank you".

一天的纠结终于解开。 谢谢各位耐心网友陪伴我糟糕的一天。

我一个一辈子大大咧咧超级独立自信的所谓“女强人”变成一个这样婆婆妈妈的小女人。 自己都看不懂了。 老了真可怕。

再次谢谢各位。