Life is hereditary

There is an old chinese saying: dragon's offspring are dragon, phoenix's offsprings are phoenixs, and rat's offsprings are rats. 

Life style, social status are herediatry.

Its makes me angry, frustrated, hopeless and helpless.  Since I wanted to break this repeated life cycle, this fate and destinate, wanted to upgade my social status by improving my offspring's social status a lot, through hard working, setting good example for my children. 

I used to belive I can do it. 

But now I have to admit that I can not. It is sad, realizing this is even more sad.