备忘录 （stat）

如果说和荧石的争执激烈程度是10分的话，与stat的争执只能说是2 或3 分。 我原可以不提他. 但是他确实能写诗. 所以, 我觉得有必要j将与他的争执说明一下. 他刚上诗坛时,并不惹人注目, 一来没上过几首诗, 二来 上坛次数不多. 我没太注意他. 直到有一次, 他跟其他人说,我不懂七律和七绝之别. 我才发现这人有点怪异. 好以别人的笔误来贬低别人. 我删了他那帖. 没跟他说什么. 此后, 他偶尔有过激言论, 我可能删了他有争议的帖. 总之, 除了觉得此人老气横秋的, 我并非太注意或太在意他. 有一天,他对诗坛上和诗.颇为不满.

this is a great forum    

文章来源: stat 于 2006-02-10 20:55:01    

 One can find everything here. The most interesting one is "coupling". It took me a while to figure out why old ladies would pretend as young gal, and more interestingly, married men would act like lads. Could it because you guys run out of steam and needed some events as catalyst -- just as impotent people turn to viagra? 

我当时想删这帖, 但还是没舍得删,并善意的提醒他. 我对他并不太在意.

let me help you a bit to see if it can clear your mind.    

 文章来源: 2ndglance 于 2006-02-10 21:27:43     
 do you like 梁山伯与祝英台？ This forum provides an interactive stage for everyone. you can play here as an actor and actress and you can plot your own show.
so enjoy it by acting and playing or just watching the show.. 

在我的帖后,还有诗友骂他, 骂得很难听, 我就删了骂他的帖. 
此后,他还在公开场合 second 我两次.  说明我和他之间并无重大纠纷或隔阂.

与stat 的正式纠纷是有一次他公开评论雨情MM 的词. 而且贴为主帖. 因为在前不久,坛上灌水太多,故要求主帖必须是诗帖.  同时又因评诗闹不开心. 故我当时的要求评诗的人应征求被评人同意,方能评诗,以免造成不必要的不愉快. 他的帖就是因为这两条原因被删. 此后, 他又故意挑衅的说什么我从删他帖中能感到做班主的权利感。我当然不能同意这种诬蔑我的帖， 故将其删去。接着他就去意见区告我， 无中生有的说我封他的ID 和 IP。我更本就没有权力封人ID 或IP。再说当时，当班主一年多，我都没有建议网管封过一个ID 或 IP。 这段事情我再另一个帖中有详细分析。
http://blog.wenxuecity.com/blogview.php?date=200604&postID=5

总之，删他的帖有正当的理由。 与他的冲突还是保持在理性范畴之中.

[2ndglance]

Stat,
You are one of the eccentric persons that I have met on the forum. Your words often do not make any sense to me. You said you never considered me as your enemy because you respect your enemies. In other words, I am not your enemy so you do not respect me. I do not understand your convoluted reasoning.

Anyway, it is not important to me whether you consider me as your enemy or not and whether you respect me or not, nor do I care about those either, because you are nothing more than an ID. What I do care about is how I look at myself whether I am alone or with others and whether I speak about the truth. When time goes by and emotion fades away, what left are the facts. That is what I care about. When I am old and I look back at this period, I can say with a clear conscious that I did the right thing at the time!

You are welcome to my blog. You do not need a reason to justify for coming here.

[stat]

2ndglance,

This should be the first time I visited your blog. The only reason I visited was that a friend of mine sent me a link for me to look without mentioning where it leads.

I never considered you my enemy. The reason is very simple: I respect my enemies.