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脑子被驴踢了 vs. 非理性的争辩/个人信念深植于情感和文化背景中

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脑子被驴踢了: "问一挺哈朋友, 你为啥支持驴党? 他沉默良久, 叹道: 我的脑子被驴踢了." explain it is wise not to argue with others on politic and religion.

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这段对话中的幽默回答——“我的脑子被驴踢了”——实际上传达了一个深刻的道理：在政治和宗教问题上争论可能不值得，因为这类讨论很容易导致情感上的冲突，而非理性的争辩。

以下是几个解释为什么在这些话题上争论可能不明智的原因：

个人信念深植于情感和文化背景中：政治和宗教信仰通常根植于个人的核心价值观和生活经历中。这些信念不仅仅是理性的判断，往往与个人的情感和文化背景紧密相关。争论这些问题时，人们可能会感到自己的基本信念和身份受到威胁，从而导致激烈的对抗而非建设性的对话。
对话容易变成争吵：这些话题往往非常敏感，容易引发强烈的情绪反应。即使双方原本是为了探讨真理或分享观点，争论可能迅速变成个人攻击，双方都可能因此感到受伤或愤怒。
难以找到共同的立场：政治和宗教观念高度多样化，往往难以找到共识。即使经过长时间的讨论，也可能发现很难改变对方的看法或达成一致。这样，争论不仅不会解决问题，还可能加深彼此的分歧。
影响人际关系：争论这些话题有可能损害个人之间的关系。如果争论导致情感上的冲突和不满，可能会影响到友谊和社会关系的和谐。因此，有时候保持沉默或尊重彼此的差异，反而能维护关系的稳定。
关注共同点：有时候，与其争论这些分歧，不如专注于共同的兴趣和价值观。这样不仅能保持关系的和谐，还能促进更有意义的对话和合作。

总之，虽然在政治和宗教问题上有不同的观点是正常的，但在这些话题上争论可能带来的负面影响使得选择不争论，或以尊重和理解的态度进行讨论，成为更明智的选择。

• 问一挺哈朋友, 你为啥支持驴党? 他沉默良久, 叹道: 我的脑子被驴踢了. - 贝勒王 - (0 bytes) (179 reads) 08/25/2024 14:31:49 (1)

• 哈哈哈，他们最大的优点就是坦率 - 老财主说两句 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:38:06

• 也许别人懒得和你争吵。生活中碰到川米分我也是敬而远之。 - Nevermind666 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:08:29

• 象党就是被大象踩平了，都是一个脑筋？ - 波粒子3 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:48:24

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• Evangelicals for Harris … - 小倩2 - (114 bytes) (233 reads) 08/25/2024 14:08:26

• 好奇问一下，Harris去不去教会？ - Dotline - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:09:48

• 去教会的人举止优雅, 不会浪笑, 更不会当小三儿. - 贝勒王 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:15:47

• 应该问她是去什么教会吧？ - 金笔 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:18:31

• 邪教。 - AprilMei - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:30:12 (1)

• 倩倩2去的肯定是邪教教会。 - 红辣椒66 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:10:12

• 哈哈是历史上第一位没有信仰的候选人 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:24:46

• 虽然我不认为候选人个人信有什么，拜登，佩婆都号称基督徒 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:26:40

• O8夫妇在竞选时也号称是基督徒 - Mich_Agent - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:23:58

• 少拿基督教拉信誉，你根本不读圣经，妄称神名的神必不以为无罪 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:28:21 (1)

• 你有什么证据说我不读圣经？ - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:31:57

• 看对你下面你关于圣经的引用，是典型的为我所用 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:39:15 (2)

• 我下面对圣经的引用才是正确解释圣经。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:46:26

• 你解经专家？敢称自己的为正解，我的解释没有一句是我自己的，都是源自传统教会的解释 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:25:17

• 圣经讲得那么清楚明显的段落只要不是因为政治理由故意闭着眼睛的都了解，不需要解经专家。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:31:06

• 是误导不熟圣经的人，故意忽略了牧师常引用的的耶利米书1:5和诗篇139:13etc - EuphoriaF - (1861 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 15:35:46

• 你引的这两段讲的是神的预知。事实上把这两段拿来反堕胎在逻辑上恰恰是否认神的预知，是异端的解经逻辑。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:41:58

• 为个党瞎扯抹黑扭曲基督教和经文，这是疯了 --这些经文就是保守派牧师们的根据你说他们异端 - EuphoriaF - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:47:11

• 以弗所1:4说神在创世以前就拣选了我们，难道我们在创世以前就存在？ - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:49:44

• 别瞎扯了- 任何党派候选人都不配拉上神给他们背书 - 继续这么做之前，先祷告那是否God's will! - EuphoriaF - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:53:56

• 那些牧师不管是不是保守派反正在这两段的圣经是解释错了，是在传异端而不自知。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:51:36

• 如果说神认识这人就证明这人已经存在，那是否认神的预知。任何一个牧师这样讲是在说异端。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:46:34

• 证据是你扯基督教为自己的党背书，证明你不熟悉主祷文！ - EuphoriaF - (387 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 15:13:39

• 你探春吧，没几天怎么又改ID？我可以证明你不是基督徒，你在紫檀贴文公开谈论你与你现在黑人丈夫的春宫生活，比色情小说还淫秽 - Mich_Agent - (69 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 15:21:32

• 你不懂基督教。在基督教的道德观里夫妻之间的性是神圣的。 - 小倩2 - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:28:06

• Kamala Harris是浸信会的基督徒。见链接： - 小倩2 - (274 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 14:31:11

• 为了混在美国混政治而已 - eazy - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 14:56:29

• 没有证据证明哈哈哈是基督徒，所有的都是她2020年竞选时说小时候去教会，Wiki没说他爸爸是基督徒，他爸爸2015年77 - Mich_Agent - (508 bytes) (2 reads) 08/25/2024 15:15:59

• 旧金山第三浸信会的牧师证明她是那教会的成员。见链接： - 小倩2 - (256 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:33:41

• 别抹黑基督教 - 只投票给本教候选人是穆斯林做法，不是基督徒的 - EuphoriaF - (0 bytes) (0 reads) 08/25/2024 15:22:26

• Meet Kamala Harris’ pastor … - 小倩2 - (256 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 14:35:06

• How often did Trump go to church? 看看quora的回答，笑死人。 - Nevermind666 - (486 bytes) (1 reads) 08/25/2024 14:37:54

https://sojo.net/articles/meet-vice-president-kamala-harris-pastor-civil-rights-leader-amos-c-brown

Brown told Sojourners that he invoked his favorite Bible verse, Micah 6:8, as he spoke with Harris, reminding her to “do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with your maker.”

“That’s what we need in this nation. There’s too much arrogance and egocentricity after all this Trumpism,” he said.

Brown said he has known Harris and her family for more than two decades, calling Harris’ mother “a terrific scholar and scientist.” Harris’s mother, Shyamala Gopalan Harris, was a Hindu from Chennai, India, who worked on breast cancer research. Harris’s father, Donald Harris, is a Black Baptist and a professor emeritus at Stanford University.

Her parents gave her experiences from the Hindu and Baptist traditions when she was growing up. In her 2019 memoir, Harris wrote that her “earliest memories of the teachings of the Bible were of a loving God, a God who asked us to ‘speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves’ and to ‘defend the rights of the poor and needy.’”

Brown said that he hoped the “groundswell” of people who protested in the summer of 2020 after George Floyd’s murder would show up in 2024.

“We can’t be cynical,” he said. “Some of these young people are cynical and misguided.”

Harris’ campaign has already been marked by widespread use of memes online — “coconut tree,” “brat,” and Harris’ love for “Venn diagrams.” Some of the memes, according to the Associated Press, are being used by Harris’s supporters in hopes of turning back “apathy” in the 2024 election and “could be a way for Harris’ campaign to resonate with younger voters.”

Brown said the vice president joined Third Baptist, where she has remained a dues-paying member, because she knew about the church’s history of working with Civil Rights leaders. Even before Brown’s time, he said the church has hosted leaders like W.E.B Du Bois and Paul Robeson.

“She came to this church because she knew our ways, she knew our history,” he said. “This church has always had a balanced spirituality: social justice and personal fulfilment and salvation.”

When asked how he’s seen Harris grow over the decades, Brown said she was a “lifelong learner.” When asked where she could grow more, he first said she should just “stay the course and hold the hope” before adding that Harris could grow in her foreign policy expertise.

Brown told Sojourners he will hear from Harris again before the week is over, on a call scheduled between the likely Democratic nominee and a group of preachers across the country.

Correction: This article was updated on July 24 to correct that Brown was a delegate to the World Conference Against Racism in 2001, not the Conference on Race and Intolerance. Brown’s bio incorrectly states the name of the conference.