unsolicited feedback can often be perceived as criticism?

Considering Western culture's emphasis on eye-level communication, where everyone is seen as equal, this "By diving inside their minds" talk-show, "ReThinking with Adam Grant," aligns well with the notion of approaching feedback with respect and equality. Jennifer Garner's example serves as an excellent illustration of success aligning with genuine qualities, highlighting the importance of being authentic, honest, big-hearted, and connected to communities in achieving positive outcomes.

"As an organizational psychologist, Adam Grant believes that great minds don't think alike; they challenge each other to think differently. In Re:Thinking with Adam Grant, he has lively discussions and debates with some of the world's most interesting thinkers, creators, achievers, and leaders—from Lin-Manuel Miranda to Brené Brown to Mark Cuban, and Olympic medalists to Nobel laureates to Oscar winners. By diving inside their minds, Adam is on a mission to uncover bold insights and share surprising science that can make us all a little bit smarter. Tune in to Re:Thinking with Adam Grant. You might just be inspired to let go of some old ideas and embrace some new ones. "

This  文学城 » 论坛 » 美语世界 » is a valuable reminder that unsolicited feedback can often be perceived as criticism, especially when given without context. To make feedback more constructive, it's essential to approach it with kindness, compassion, and a genuine intention to be helpful, rather than adopting a'savior' mentality. Communicating this intent upfront and seeking permission before proceeding enhances the effectiveness of the feedback.

Regardless, you should always give specific feedback on a specific behavior; never generalize a comment to a group or a race, but rather a specific individual's behavior, followed by constructive and corrective solutions.

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Jennifer Garner is authentic, honest, big-hearted, and connected to her communities. It's a case of success coming to a very good person.

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Jennifer Garner realizes her hidden potential

Jennifer Garner’s roles — from “13 Going on 30” to “Juno” to “Alias” — often center strong women who know how to achieve great things. In a fun and surprising live conversation, Jennifer chats with Adam about his latest book, “Hidden Potential.” They dive into the most eye-opening findings in Adam’s research and the unexpected factors that build character and long-term success. Plus, the two dream up the ideal school — and discuss what it’s like to be both “Type A” and “Type Z” parents. Transcripts for ReThinking are available at  go.ted.com/RWAGscripts

 

https://www.ted.com/podcasts/mark-cuban-doesn-t-believe-in-following-your-passions-transcript 

My favorite insight from this conversation is to follow your effort, not your passion. (the process: The easiest way to figure that out is to pay attention to how you spend your time.

https://www.ted.com/podcasts/rethinking-with-adam-grant-transcripts?