The best advice from my VP boss was: "Sometimes, you better dodge the bullet, keep moving on. Sometime, You got to fight. You may lose if you fight. If you don't, you never succeed. But, you got Pick up a right fight - fight through to succeed. "
How can you do that? As Obama fought back to Hillary Clinton's knowledge and experience:
Judgment is more important than knowledge and experience. But, how to judge spatiotemporal information? by instinct? by experience? by prayers?
The first step to silencing the negative voice in your head is to take control of your thoughts. If the thought is not a fact, replace it with the truth.
成功的第一要素,就是知道哪些rules是可以break的. 如果遵守一切rules,一辈子必定平平庸庸。如果break the wrong rules,那就会栽进监狱。所以学会有选择地break rules,才能成功。(The first element of success is to know which rules are breakable. If you follow all the rules, you will have to be mediocre in your life. If you break the wrong rules, you will be put in jail. So learn to break rules selectively to be successful.)
Mao Zedong said "play a right punch to avoid a hundred punches". How to hit the punch? Need to know where to hit! If you make a mistake, you can't get it back. "
Quasi, steady, and awkward. Li Ka-shing "It is more important to clear your mind than to sell hard work. It is more important to choose the right direction than to work hard."
That's true, given two cases, below.
@AdamMGrant When we seek advice, we rarely want to be told which option to choose. We're usually seeking guidance on how to approach the decision. The best advice doesn't specify what to do. It highlights blind spots in our thinking and helps us clarify our priorities."
我的副总裁老板最好的建议是:“你必须打架。如果你打架,你可能会失败。如果你不这样做,你就永远不会成功。但是,你得到正确的战斗 - 争取成功。”
你怎么能这样做? 奥巴马回击希拉里克林顿的知识和经验:
判断比知识更重要。
毛爷那 “打得一拳开,躲得百拳来”,打那一拳? 必要识何处打去! 打错就收不回来了。"伤十指, 不如断其一指,"
准、稳、狠。李嘉诚 "思路清晰卖苦力更重要, 选对方向比努力更重要。"
这是真的,给出两个案例,下面。
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如果遵守一切rules,一辈子必定平平庸庸。
如果break the wrong rules,那就会栽进监狱。
所以学会有选择地break rules,才能成功。-
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三少爷的剑 于
2018-08-30 07:12:39
俺早就说了,天朝选错了敌人。
邓大人说,凡是和美国...,凡是和美国...
邓大人比 current government强多了。
美帝作为世界唯一的超强,不可能被外敌打败或超越,除非自己内乱分裂。但其民主体制让普通民众的不满有宣泄的出口,让反对派有通过正常渠道实现自己政治抱负的手段,所以虽然内部争吵,但目前完全看不到分裂的可能。
而独裁极权国家虽然看似上下同心,但发生政变的可能性极大。只要干掉几个人,一群奴才不管谁坐上龙椅,都会山呼万岁
• 三弟,你还得服毛爷,不是毛爷那“打得一拳开,躲得百拳来”,什么邓大人,习老哥还奢谈什么凡是如何,就单等着洋枪队吧 -农业砖家- ♂ (169 bytes) (41 reads) 08/30/2018 postreply 07:16:30
• 一个人,不靠父母,在国外打拼站稳脚跟,一个字 “赞”!!! -cowpi- ♂