两性之爱 - 婚姻 vs 爱情

有人说 : Life is too short to be mean to others. 人生苦短,没必要对他人恶劣.

我的一位离婚的朋友说, 有婚姻不等于有爱情， 有爱情不等于有婚姻。

I think , it takes two good persons meet at right time, and right place to have 爱情的婚姻 last long …

我觉得好的婚姻是两个好人相遇在适当的时间,和适当的地方.

Life is real, realistic and practical,  filled with all details  in every place at every moment. Can we choose? Maybe, but NOT always. So, just let it flow smoothly, naturally. 爱情 is beautiful, but other components in life also make life beautiful as well. Taking care our own happiness instead of depending others to be happy may be easier.

Don ’ t be mean to others, but be NICE to ourselves! 不要对他人恶, 但对自己要好!