昨天女儿给喜欢的男生写条子被抓， 我很不好意思地在老师发的warning note上签了字。
今天问她， 那个男孩知道了吗？ 她说， 当然不知道， 条子被老师收走了啊。
why not? you think I am going to give up?
有一些确定， 但不是百分之百。this feeling has been going on for two years.
what if his friends find out and start to mock or joke on him? what if he feels embarrassed?
I dont care.
you dont care how he feels?
mama, things changed, it is not like when you were young, OK? nobody feels embarrassed just because someone likes you.
I think the best way to handle it is to do it subtly. You can find chances to talk to him, share something with him, ask for help or play with him, so both of your feelings can grow natually and smoothly. If you take this bold action, you may scare him away or make each other feel awkward.
boys usually dont like girls to be too aggressive
because millions of years ago, men are hunters , women are gatherers. that is the way we are,
说着说着， 就进入人类学了。 我还是很善于引导的吧？